Why men are not attracted to me

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very passionate about many issues like the environment and social justice movements. I tried online dating at eharmony for six months but didn't meet anyone. Actually zero conversations from it. Sometimes I think it's gonna be like this forever. I mean not even a coffee date in 4 years is a long time. It seems like all men around have no interest in anything whatsoever. Actually it is very rare to even see single men going to the places and activities that I like, like hiking, the beach, festivals, etc.. I always read that men are attracted to confident, talented, independent women with their own life and interests, but, I don't know, I am that woman and no guy seems to ever notice me anywhere.

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Written by: Lilliam
Posted: 2019-07-23 02:03:39

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Comment/reply from: wd11, United Kingdom, Edinburgh
Posted: 2019-08-16 11:34:12

Please stop putting yourself short if the guys you wont to chat to are not interested in you then that's their loss not yours. You sound like a fun person to spend time with and I like walking on the sand and movie and cuddle's on the sofa, rubbing sore feet after a hard day, so chin up and walk tall.

Comment/reply from: Former member, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-08-19 20:46:02

hi if no guy makes a move on you just reverse situation and you hit up on one if you like the look of them. just general chat to begin with you may be surprised how quickly things change for you. good luck and keep on looking someone will pop up trust yourself. xx

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