Real men

Posted by Lj
- Oct 25, 2017 @22:29

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate dating sites and so tired of people wanting sexy pictures or trying to sext. I want a friendship that's on fire... so to speak. I want a best friend, not a hunky sex fiend. Am I searching for a proverbial unicorn or are there still real men left (who are absolutely single!) out there?

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Comments

Tina
Location undisclosed, City unknown
- Posted Nov 10, 2017 @23:08
I like your words and you have the same thought as me this lead me to comment on your post.
pofiykingston
Cameroon, Yaoundé
- Posted Dec 07, 2017 @21:52
It's just real no big deal it's nature
AndreaRiley143
Australia, Sydney
- Posted Jan 02, 2018 @23:55
Hello Lj,
The way you describe yourself you are adorable. It's all natural that most of male users in dating site are perverts but not all of them. There are quite a few that's sincere in looking for a lifetime partners. Maybe they haven't seen you yet, don't rush thing out.
Anonymous Contributor
Canada, City unknown
- Posted Jan 08, 2018 @23:38
Yes men objectify women sexually, and women objectify men socially (often unwittingly). The "measure" of a man is often sexist and discriminatory and can be far more morally judgemental than its male counterpart. Worse yet, it is rarely even observed or discussed. What so many people miss is the following simple reality; "Men desire sex before emotional intimacy and women desire emotional intimacy before sex". It's a simple consideration of order of events that separate us. This is where "compromise" needs to be on the table and we simply need to meet somewhere in the middle. We each have something that the other wants but greed/self involvement ruin the day.
Madbadger86
United States, Central Bridge
- Posted Jan 10, 2018 @10:11
You sound like my kind of gal o like a girl to cuddle up and watch movies or go out on dates.
James017
United States, Central Bridge
- Posted Jun 28, 2018 @08:22
Sure, there are still real men out there... Men that will desire intimacy before anything crops in... All you need is to get patient for the right one... There is always that one right and respectful person for each person on earth.
Tom
United States, City unknown
- Posted Nov 10, 2018 @10:33
I know what your talking about, I have meet so many women that act the same way. I'm not a prude or anything like that, like if I was with someone for a while and we are exclusive I think that a sexy text picture is very exciting. Women are not all that much better, alot of them are just looking for a hookup, or just a FWB type of a relationship. I have given up finding that "someone special" I so sick of dating people not having it go any where. I'm kind of old fashioned and I get the weirdest looks when I hold a door open for a lady. I don't know what to tell you, I feel your pain.
FlexGirl
United States, Central Bridge
- Posted Jan 28, 2019 @10:45
I really question myself the same. I still love having little fun though. I'm more open than others and I'm searching for a partner who seeks the same things I crave. For example, I love watching live videos. And I would like to watch it with someone I like :) Write to me if you're not afraid of it.
westaustine
United States, Central Bridge
- Posted Jun 18, 2019 @09:23
Why don't you add me up, let's see where it goes.
Lionel
United States, City unknown
- Posted Jul 22, 2019 @09:36
Hi, well.. I'm not good at giving advice but, sometimes our timing is off. I feel the same way. So now I just give time a chance
an ex Flirthut member
United States, Kennedy
- Posted Nov 20, 2019 @01:27
Actually, if you want to be friends with guys, I can be your friend, (decent friendship relation) I'm kinda young but I'm a great listener and also I'm kind of a person who is more into women older than him so if you wanna chat or talk about anything and if u wanna be friends, send me your Instagram username. And one last thing, you are Amazing the Way u Are and Don't let any pervert man define u who u are.
an ex Flirthut member
United States, Ennis
- Posted Mar 13, 2025 @21:17
If any person asks you for a nude picture then I would say drop them faster than you found them because you don't know what they will do with it. Now I say this if a woman asks me for money and I have never met her In person then the gloves come off ' I fill that if she has the guts to do that then I have the right to ask of her anything at all.. i don't play that game I just delete them at once.

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