My sexual Desires

Struggling With Identity and Desire: Sorting Through Confusing Feelings

Posted by Leanna1
- Nov 21, 2025 @17:51

Hi there. It’s Leanna here. I think I need to put this down here for whoever finds it interesting.
I’m 26 years old and I live with my parents. My dating life has been somewhat chaotic and very unstable however, I do have s*xual desires that I always want to tend to. My s*x drive happens to be very high and sometimes hard to control.
I’ve had my fair share of hot and intense s*x but I think the best I’ve gotten was a three*ome I had once with a random couple. I’m not a lesbian but I fear I enjoyed how I was touched by the wife rather than the husband. She ate me till I had an org*sm I never had in my life and that made me feel lesser pleasure when her husband pen*rated me. Ever since, I have not had much s*x, but it’s been on my mind so bad to be touched by a woman again…Recently, I hooked up with a man, we had fun times together and it’s been the best s*x I’ve had in a while but I can’t seem to stop thinking of having a three*ome over and over again. I’m kinda worried I’m getting more attracted to ladies and I can’t help the feeling. I do want a man so bad but when we get s*xual, I feel the need to want so much more.
What do I do? I know what I want but I’m still in denial. I’m scared of addiction to the wrong thing.

Comments

AdrianLukas
Germany, Wüstenrot
- Posted Nov 24, 2025 @23:45
You’re not doing anything wrong — your desire and curiosity are normal. Enjoying se*ual touch from a woman doesn’t mean you’re suddenly not into men; se*uality can be fluid, and you don’t need to label yourself. What you’re craving might be the intensity of the threesome experience, not necessarily a shift in your orientation. This isn’t addiction — it’s strong desire and curiosity triggered by a memorable experience.
Take your time exploring your feelings without judging them, notice what exactly you enjoyed, and remember you can be attracted to men while still being curious about women. You’re discovering yourself, not denying anything.
Leanna1
United States, Cold Spring
- Posted Nov 26, 2025 @11:10
Thank you very much Adrian. I just wasn’t sure of how I feel. This certainly helps.
Thank you.

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