Love or lust?

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on lust. The other day, I was telling a friend of mine about my new partner and they asked me a few questions about them. I realized I didn't know the answer. That's when I began to question myself. I had always planned on dating someone with the intention of our relationship progressing but I'm not sure it will in this case. How do you really know if what you have with someone is love or lust? I've even tried going down the route of not sleeping with them when we meet, but it's just so hard as we always end up passionately making out which ultimately leads to us jumping into bed.

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Posted: 2019-09-25 12:32:28

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Comment/reply from: Legsman, United Kingdom, Liverpool
Posted: 2020-02-07 14:10:28

I lust for women’s legs, can't get enough of them , love the way look and feel, don’t really care what you look like it’s them legs that have me lust for you..

Comment/reply from: Former member, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2020-02-10 23:24:11

Either get to know him and see if there’s a mutual ground. If you go for the lust it will break down eventually. One of you will get bored and move on.

Comment/reply from: Trek, United States, Oakland
Posted: 2020-03-20 13:10:50

Your relationship is purely "Pleasure". Immediately hopping in the sack will only get you that. Know him first.

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