Do women like control in bed?

Hi. I'm intrigued to know how women feel about being in control in bed? Normally I like to be in control but have never really met a women that will take over. I'd like to be tied to the bed and let her do anything she wants but I'm normally the one that has to do it. Anyone like tying a guy up?

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Posted by member: Funguy2269
From: United Kingdom, Chester
Posted: 2016-10-02 22:03:38

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Comment/reply from: SamarthGodara, India, Jaipur
Posted: 2016-10-04 21:18:19

Hello, your answer differs with women of different ages, different sex level and interest. No girl want to star with hardcore sex. But many girls may want more from their men than just simple sex.

Comment/reply from: Former member, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2016-10-17 15:29:25

And now for a real answer and some inside knowledge from a real male/female couple... Truth is, it's all about ones sexual preference, experience, drive/libido and conception of it. All women are very different as far as sex goes. And with everything sex, contrary to what textbook reading idiots say, are is irrelevant. Some women are very plain and milquetoast in bed. Some are not. Some women like it rough. Some do not. Some women love dirty talk, either giving it or hearing it. Some don't want any chit-chat in bed. Some women love to "take control". Some women expect the man to always be "in control". Some are into tying a guy up and having their way with them. Some aren't. And sometimes it's not about control at all, it's about pleasure and pleasing one another - you pleasing her and her pleasing you! And It won't always be what you want or how you want it - nope, it has to go both ways sometimes especially since you're not the only one in the bed! From a guy's point of view and vast experience, before I married I had been with many, many women. Some liked it rough. One liked it really rough (that was actually a turn off for me). Some liked it kinky. Many liked to talk dirty or be talked dirty to and at least four or five liked to tie me up. But I've always made sure it wasn't about me and always made sure that any woman I'm with is completely satisfied way before me.

Comment/reply from: Former member, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2016-10-18 19:27:14

Sorry for the typo, we meant to say "AGE is irrelevant."

Comment/reply from: Miaka, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2016-11-07 09:46:54

Hi there. I'm 30, and a virgin. However, I've always been a bit adventurous in my thoughts (as I please myself) and have definitely had the thought of tying my [future] husband down on the bed. That is, so I can please, tease, and see him get turned on and while being unable to touch me or do anything more. I get pleasure knowing I'm pleasing my man, but I think that isn't uncommon.

Comment/reply from: Shambria, United States, Jacksonville
Posted: 2017-05-09 21:37:54

I can't speak for every woman out there obviously, but I can say that I enjoy sharing control in the bedroom. I take pleasure in knowing that I can control some sexual experiences. Plus I love to tie my guy up while I tease him until he can't stand it anymore!

Comment/reply from: Former member, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2017-05-27 00:28:08

Only speaking for myself, i loved being in control when i was younger, but now i prefer the guy to be in control.

Comment/reply from: Cedroeee, United States, Centerville
Posted: 2018-02-18 23:10:11

I like it, honestly ;)

Comment/reply from: Wittyl37, United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-08-22 09:51:34

I like being tied and gets fondling hands on me most especially in **** parts and makes me feel like a real woman.

Comment/reply from: karendy1, United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2021-05-01 08:19:26

Woman do enjoy been tied on bed and have satisfaction.

Comment/reply from: Gafolu, Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2023-10-26 08:37:47

Some do some don't. Depends on the person involved and what you both want. Bottom line is it ought to be a mutual agreement or for experimental purposes before you decide to stop or continue

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