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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  strange man

I meet a man online and we dated for 6 months. We finally meet and later discover he was married with kids what should i do with that kind of men also am in love with him......am so confused on what to do now .. I cant stop thinking about him all the time please advice me on what to do ....am losing my mind at the moment in life i need serious help and a brillant advice with idea with all pleasure..... been single for 2 years is not an easy tasks life must continue as usual i need a sincere man ... read more →

Posted by: c_patterson
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-09-06 20:45:08

  Why age differences are a problem

The title clearly does explain in summary. Why the age differences a problem? There are many factors. Because of the way Hollywood is, social media, etc. Let me explain with this situation. When I was 18, my hair started to turn grey and does run in family. I recalled at age 24 or 25 that in church, 4 women my age (their age range 20 to 28) did not want to tell me directly and told my own brother that I am too old for them. I asked why as I started to break down. They said they thought I a... read more →

Posted by: Marcosearchesforbrid
United States, Liverpool
Posted: 2020-09-01 17:42:10

  Downside of masks and social distancing

Although I haven't been out in public for six months - partly due to the virus restrictions but also because of a foot which was a big problem - I've now had a leg bypass which is healing my foot. But while I was in hospital I was seeing many attractive nurses and female doctors, but I quickly realised how much I missed seeing their full face and smiles that would normally be a part of. Hopefully, that may change interaction now because of masks all that is missing! Which is a big loss, as a wom... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-08-31 20:55:46

  What is the most important thing in a relationship?

I think the three most important things in love are trust, responsibility, and love. Two people in love must care for each other, take care of each other, comfort each other, and trust each other. Trust comes first because trust is the foundation of a relationship, and responsibility is essential to managing that relationship. The other half is the responsibility of both parties to care for and to pay for each other. When they get married and have a family, they are responsible for the managemen... read more →

Posted by: cici
Germany, Berlin
Posted: 2020-08-28 09:19:59

  Drivers flirting

Hi everyone, I drive for a living, and just lately, due to Covid-19, there have been a lot more people out jogging and exercising. Many of them seem to have taken time to look their best and if they make eye contact I often smile or give them an encouraging thumbs-up. Generally, they smile or wave back which is nice and certainly improves my day, but a few seem to be offended which is really not my intention. I don't just pick out the beauty queen's, they probably know they look good and probabl... read more →

Posted by: Flyerman
United Kingdom, Baldock
Posted: 2020-08-19 13:06:01

  Cheating

Hi I want to ask the men out there the eternal question which all women want to know...Are all men cheats? According to my best 'guy-friend', they are, no matter how much they love their partners, they just can't help themselves if it's offered to them on a plate. So guys, please answer this question...would you cheat on your partner if it was offered and you thought she would never know? Is there any one to and this questions ,Hi I want to ask the men out there the eternal question which ... read more →

Posted by: Jody1
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-08-16 06:48:11

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  Getting his attention back to me

Just move on. Forget him. His loss because he cheated on you. Hey, you never know someone better for you when you find him....

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  20 questions to ask a guy

Asking 20 questions sounds like a job interview. Can turn off someone. It does to me. I feel like I am being interviewed. No. You need to do is ask ONE question to "fish" a conversation. What I mean is that you ask him one question and start a conversation. That way, you will be glad to talk about things. Not 20 questions where he may feel stressed to answer them all like he had go through college finals. No. Never say "20 questions" so he will feel much better knowing you are not goin...

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  How do I keep getting up in the morning?

Just move on. And look for someone locally....

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  Why age differences are a problem

xuruirui, considering older women is out of question, period. I have for long time! I use same nice personality to all ages. But I am quite frank to tell older ones I am seeking to marry AND HAVE KIDS. I would never forget their disappointments on their faces. Really! If everyone believes in honesty, I am being honest right at the start....

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  Me

Agreed with you regarding Communication. I capitalized that because its important. Yes, honesty is important. For me, I believe in the Foundation of 5 Cs in Relationship and Marriage. That is part of my motto: Christ, Common, Charity, Communication, and Commitment. OK, Christ is because I am a Christian and I prefer a Christian woman and that is, 3 in one. Christ in relationship as said in Bible. Long to explain. Common is when both are equally yoked. Having a lot in common interests a...

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  I found him on Bumble and he wouldn't leave me alone

Wow, you had a stalker. You are from UK, I do not know anything about the language of the law of UK that may have anti-stalking. I cannot believe the police would say that because I too had a stalker. We did meet in person but I felt she was not for me after I noticed her way and other number of reasons. Anyway, she continued to stalk me and ruined my chance to meet someone locally. I had enough of that and called the police too and the police said can not do anything here in the US too bec...

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  strange man

I meet a man online and we dated for 6 months. We finally meet and later discover he was married with kids what should i do with that kind of men also am in love with him......am so confused on what to do now .. I cant stop thinking about him all the time please advice me on what to do ....am losing my mind at the moment in life i need serious help and a brillant advice with idea with all pleasure..... been single for 2 years is not an easy tasks life must continue as usual i need a sincere man ... read more →

Posted by: c_patterson
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-09-06 20:45:08

  What is the most important thing in a relationship?

I think the three most important things in love are trust, responsibility, and love. Two people in love must care for each other, take care of each other, comfort each other, and trust each other. Trust comes first because trust is the foundation of a relationship, and responsibility is essential to managing that relationship. The other half is the responsibility of both parties to care for and to pay for each other. When they get married and have a family, they are responsible for the managemen... read more →

Posted by: cici
Germany, Berlin
Posted: 2020-08-28 09:19:59

  Why age differences are a problem

The title clearly does explain in summary. Why the age differences a problem? There are many factors. Because of the way Hollywood is, social media, etc. Let me explain with this situation. When I was 18, my hair started to turn grey and does run in family. I recalled at age 24 or 25 that in church, 4 women my age (their age range 20 to 28) did not want to tell me directly and told my own brother that I am too old for them. I asked why as I started to break down. They said they thought I a... read more →

Posted by: Marcosearchesforbrid
United States, Liverpool
Posted: 2020-09-01 17:42:10