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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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9 Years Single and W/O Benefits
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9 Years Single and W/O Benefits

I am 54 years old and haven't been on the scene, for 9 years. That means at all. Is this a good thing, or are you thinking "this guy is an idiot"? I have my health issues, but thought, why should I sit here, day in, and day out, alone. I am open to FWB, Something Casual maybe, or maybe long-term. Either one, I don't play the field, if I am with someone. Yes, some of us still have the old-time values. I don't mind being contacted, just to chat, I have nothing better to do, honestly. I also, am NO... read more →

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