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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Dating location

Hello, Uplay here, I am currently looking for advice on, which dating spot is a good place to start? (especially when to do to it, on the appropriate weather). I'm talking of course in a local area or city. For me? there are a few options, but many are restaurant-related which is fine but not ideal in my opinion. Anyway, I'm wondering where to start off on a simple date. Thanks for reading and sorry if I seem dumb for asking this. The following I forgot I am willing to go, is a hiking trail and ... read more →

Posted by: uplay
Canada, North Bay
Posted: 2021-02-03 02:30:41

  Distance in a relationship

If a man leaving or working offshore as a Marine Engineer and as a widower, and decided to go on with a woman to spend the rest of his life with as husband and wife, but still working that job as a Marine Engineer, what advice do you have for that person to save his relationship if he finds a woman he loves? If it happens that you're the woman he finds, what would be your advice to him if you truly love him to become your life partner? You as a man, what will be your advice to him? I ask this qu... read more →

Posted by: Bromsonj
United States, Santa Ana
Posted: 2020-12-02 18:06:25

  How often do older women date younger guys?

My question is how often do older women date younger guys? Do older women date younger guys as often as older men date younger women? Or is it because older women have more ego than older men? Or is it that they fear that their status will be dragged through the mud by dating a younger guy? Or the older women don't want to bring themselves so low for the sake of love or the matter of the heart? Or they feel that the younger guys are incapable of giving them the kind of love they want? Or the... read more →

Posted by: Fbicy
Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2020-12-01 05:29:24

  Dating A Parent/Divorced

Hello, this is my first ever post on this particular subject, which I'm not entirely familiar with and wish to be. Anyway here is my question I am familiar with dating, however I am asking this. How do you handle and proceed in dating someone who also happens to be a parent? The reason is, I never dated anyone who is a parent and interested in knowing how its like. One more thing, is it okay to actually date someone is also divorced also ? This is my first time writing this and I welcome honest ... read more →

Posted by: uplay
Canada, North Bay
Posted: 2020-11-19 03:14:19

  Girl on a train

Typed a load of stuff and not accepted so reluctant to type again.. Met on a train and we conversed for 2-3 years and got really friendly. We would find one another in different carriages and when busy would sit alongside each other. We conversed freely and joked and laughed and I fell deeply in love with her. Suddenly, she started using a different carriage and when I questioned her as to whether I had said something wrong, she said 'oh no not at all'. We got on brilliantly.. never a cross w... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-11-13 20:20:53

  Not sure what to do

I've been married for 16 years now. Everything was great. About 3 years ago my wife has become very mean and standoffish. I thought she was cheating I GPS her phone and car, checked her text and emails. Nothing. She doesn't even go out. At about the same time, she quit having s*x with me. Every time I have asked. I'm too tired. I don't know what to do. I've had no s*x for 3 years. I tried intimate dinners. Little special things for her. Just don't know what to do. I really just want to find a fr... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-11-12 03:43:40

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I'm in the UK too and the same experience....

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  How often do older women date younger guys?

A wine is more finer when it oak is even older...if you are bold and mature enough she will let you and besides this women are old school and will not given as your younger girls be a good friend first i believe but never be to shy from letting your true feelings know....

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  Distance in a relationship

In life i believe love is all about understanding ,although there are many aspect of loving, I believe the most paramount is in the heart and if you love yourself carry on with that love you share....

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  Do all men cheat if given the opportunity?

Absolutely all men are cheaters and pretenders too....

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  How can you tell if a girl is interested?

I know this will seem like a crop out, but a woman is only interested in a man that is just himself, able to carry a conversation and has positive energy and vibes....

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  Intimacy during lockdown - surely it was meant to ge...

Ah well, we tried all that. Tantric too. I was well up for it, I was just happy to be naked with her. She didn't want to continue with it. What's a man to do?...

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Dating location

Hello, Uplay here, I am currently looking for advice on, which dating spot is a good place to start? (especially when to do to it, on the appropriate weather). I'm talking of course in a local area or city. For me? there are a few options, but many are restaurant-related which is fine but not ideal in my opinion. Anyway, I'm wondering where to start off on a simple date. Thanks for reading and sorry if I seem dumb for asking this. The following I forgot I am willing to go, is a hiking trail and ... read more →

Posted by: uplay
Canada, North Bay
Posted: 2021-02-03 02:30:41

  Distance in a relationship

If a man leaving or working offshore as a Marine Engineer and as a widower, and decided to go on with a woman to spend the rest of his life with as husband and wife, but still working that job as a Marine Engineer, what advice do you have for that person to save his relationship if he finds a woman he loves? If it happens that you're the woman he finds, what would be your advice to him if you truly love him to become your life partner? You as a man, what will be your advice to him? I ask this qu... read more →

Posted by: Bromsonj
United States, Santa Ana
Posted: 2020-12-02 18:06:25

  Not sure what to do

I've been married for 16 years now. Everything was great. About 3 years ago my wife has become very mean and standoffish. I thought she was cheating I GPS her phone and car, checked her text and emails. Nothing. She doesn't even go out. At about the same time, she quit having s*x with me. Every time I have asked. I'm too tired. I don't know what to do. I've had no s*x for 3 years. I tried intimate dinners. Little special things for her. Just don't know what to do. I really just want to find a fr... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-11-12 03:43:40