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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Should a girl never have guy friends?

Hi All, I am 33 years old and have never been in any relationship. I am outgoing and easy to talk to, but never has a guy taken interest in me. I would say that I have been bro-zoned a lot of times. Recently I met a guy who actually treated me like a girl and took interest in me. My loud laugh, my weight, my dusky look didn't matter to him. I have developed a soft spot for him and we started dating. However he says that I shouldn't have any male friends and should never converse with them... read more →

Posted by: Nia
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2023-05-15 21:44:14

  What is the best thing to write in your dating profi...

I searched the internet for the question of what to write in your profile and found this to be one of the best idea: "My name is (whatever) and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm fifty-five years old, with muddy brown hair, deathly pale waxy skin, and cold, dead fish eyes. In my spare time I sit in front of the PC, read, gamble or read and gamble while I am sitting in front of the PC. I'm indifferent, boring, neurotic and not particularly bright. I can't think of any positive character traits at ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2023-03-03 19:42:01

  Why do men cheat on their girlfriend that they claim...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me by sleeping with his female colleague at work. He was very friendly with most of his female colleagues at work, I thought that he was just been friendly with his colleagues which is very good considering the fact that it is healthy for person to be friendly with the people around him or her. Unfortunately, I was mistaken to say the least, I came to his house without his notice because he gave me his spare keys, so I decided to pay him a visit without his notice. ... read more →

Posted by: Zhaoxian
China, Guangzhou
Posted: 2022-11-21 10:58:02

  Is there a drama free relationship?

One of my best friends had asked me during our regular conversation "Is there a drama-free relationship"? My answer was if by "DRAMA" you mean a partner being distressed when you show a lack of concern or an attempt or admiration, then no, there are no relationships where your partner has zero hope or wants of their own. After some time people start to feel neglected and disappointed. They have expectations of what companionship should be like, and this is not what they'd hope hoped for. ... read more →

Posted by: strthawk
United States, Lilburn
Posted: 2022-03-31 13:34:00

  Stranger s*x on vacation or business trips

Like one other forum post that was presented earlier here, I too have enjoyed many an anonymous, or stranger s*x, encounter while staying at motels/hotels . . . Most were when I was working for a major corporation and travelling on business across the USA, many other casual encounters occurred while I was relaxing on vacation, usually in a tropical southeastern state . . . I harbor very good memories of a visit to Durango, Colorado, way back in '77 or '78 . . . While on an extended stay at a... read more →

Posted by: Love2eatin
United States, Indianapolis
Posted: 2021-11-01 13:47:11

  What did you expect?

Internet and social media came as the second flooding of the Earth to leave all it's people surfing in the sea of never ending temptation and opportunity. Loyalty drowned in this sea and respect floats adrift on a lifeboat named honesty which leaves higher chance of finding Bigfoot in the forest before finding loyalty's ghost in the sea. Broken hearts are self inflicted as we allow it to happen by standing in the line of fire knowing the likelyhood of being shot down. Everyone proclaims thems... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2021-08-23 09:33:05

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  What did you expect?

interesting...

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  Urge of Men Over 30

I'm 36, just left a s*xless 12yr relationship. I'm way more s*xually available now. And more knowledgeable which helps. I don't think my drive will ever die...

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  Over 30 and Nerdy

for the life of me I couldn't find any guys interested in nerdy girls so feels good to see this post...

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  Over 30 and Nerdy

I'm sure this have something to do where you searching. It is difficult to find a woman who has the same interests, maybe you try someone who at first glance does not meet your search criteria. My experience is that women from a simple conditions are more involved in someone who does not correspond to the standard....

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  How often do older women date younger guys?

I think this depends always on the interests a woman have. For a real long term relationship they mostly searching for a man in the same age, if they only want to have fun, a younger man can be more interesting....

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  Urge of Men Over 30

I need a man who can take me on through the whole night...

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Should a girl never have guy friends?

Hi All, I am 33 years old and have never been in any relationship. I am outgoing and easy to talk to, but never has a guy taken interest in me. I would say that I have been bro-zoned a lot of times. Recently I met a guy who actually treated me like a girl and took interest in me. My loud laugh, my weight, my dusky look didn't matter to him. I have developed a soft spot for him and we started dating. However he says that I shouldn't have any male friends and should never converse with them... read more →

Posted by: Nia
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2023-05-15 21:44:14

  What is the best thing to write in your dating profi...

I searched the internet for the question of what to write in your profile and found this to be one of the best idea: "My name is (whatever) and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm fifty-five years old, with muddy brown hair, deathly pale waxy skin, and cold, dead fish eyes. In my spare time I sit in front of the PC, read, gamble or read and gamble while I am sitting in front of the PC. I'm indifferent, boring, neurotic and not particularly bright. I can't think of any positive character traits at ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2023-03-03 19:42:01

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18

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