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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Getting his attention back to me

I'm with my first serious boyfriend for four years now and we had planned our life together, went ring shopping, and had everything laid out in front of us. He suddenly broke up with me just before I thought he was going to propose. I'm devastated. I just discovered that he was in another serious relationship with his High school sweetheart, he maintains this cool smart look whenever he's on the cam with me, most of the time it hurts me when I remember all the promises and sacrifices I've inves... read more →

Posted by: annabrixx
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-04-03 18:01:50

  Single man doubts

What kind of erotic videos can you watch with a girl? I don't want her to get offended, but I love watching s*x videos to get excited. Do you have any recommendations? I never know how girls feel about watching erotica together and I'm always scared of bringing this topic up. What's your experience? I know that almost all men watch these videos when they're alone/single, but there aren't many discussions where I can find erotica in the couple. I have serious difficulties getting excited if I don... read more →

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Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2020-03-30 08:05:13

  Over 30 and Nerdy

Hi, I'm Arthur and I'm 39! I am at a place in my life where I want to date again and things are great for me. I feel I am level headed, hard-working, confident (not arrogant), and ambitious. I stream on Twitch and work a full-time job! Most of the time I feel great and it doesn't take me much to get out of a funk, because, hey, we all get like that. I'm just an optimist. My problem is I can't find a woman that has my carefree nature and nerdy tendencies. Most women my age want/have k... read more →

Posted by: Arthur
United States,
Posted: 2020-03-28 13:33:16

  Some random ideas

There's a lot of classic places for dates; the movies, a restaurant, the fair, and many other good choices exist. But if you're low on funds, museums and art galleries are wonderful. Local parks, community centers, hiking trails. One of the places I've always wanted to be taken for a date is an aquarium or stargazing! One of my favorite dates was at a zoo. These types of activities create a bit more excitement and allow more meaningful conversations to develop beyond favorite colors and movie ge... read more →

Posted by: itmeKat
United States, Jefferson City
Posted: 2020-03-17 02:50:03

  Take your time

Take your time - Don't rush, as the saying goes, out of the pot into the fire. Some people rush into relationships for the wrong reasons. They've barely gotten out of one and jump right back into another before they have healed. What happens is they end up carrying a lot of emotional baggage with them. Is it fair? Is it right? No, it ain't especially - not to the other party. Some think with their eyes, not with their heart. They get rid of Mr X because they think they see more in Mr Y but the t... read more →

Posted by: Jc88
Bahamas, Coopers Town
Posted: 2020-03-09 07:02:35

  Why did she switch up?

Me and this chick I met last January have been texting on and off since we last saw each other last March. I'll always try to link with her and she'll take a couple of days to respond or something and I'll get kind of angry and pushy and I noticed she'll never reply. But I could go months without texting her and when I do she would always respond quickly and then she'll eventually become cold. She'll only respond quickly when I have ghosted her after she's gone cold on me. This time around, I... read more →

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My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  Getting his attention back to me

I'm with my first serious boyfriend for four years now and we had planned our life together, went ring shopping, and had everything laid out in front of us. He suddenly broke up with me just before I thought he was going to propose. I'm devastated. I just discovered that he was in another serious relationship with his High school sweetheart, he maintains this cool smart look whenever he's on the cam with me, most of the time it hurts me when I remember all the promises and sacrifices I've inves... read more →

Posted by: annabrixx
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-04-03 18:01:50

  Single man doubts

What kind of erotic videos can you watch with a girl? I don't want her to get offended, but I love watching s*x videos to get excited. Do you have any recommendations? I never know how girls feel about watching erotica together and I'm always scared of bringing this topic up. What's your experience? I know that almost all men watch these videos when they're alone/single, but there aren't many discussions where I can find erotica in the couple. I have serious difficulties getting excited if I don... read more →

Posted by:
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2020-03-30 08:05:13

  Some random ideas

There's a lot of classic places for dates; the movies, a restaurant, the fair, and many other good choices exist. But if you're low on funds, museums and art galleries are wonderful. Local parks, community centers, hiking trails. One of the places I've always wanted to be taken for a date is an aquarium or stargazing! One of my favorite dates was at a zoo. These types of activities create a bit more excitement and allow more meaningful conversations to develop beyond favorite colors and movie ge... read more →

Posted by: itmeKat
United States, Jefferson City
Posted: 2020-03-17 02:50:03