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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Dating A Parent/Divorced

Hello, this is my first ever post on this particular subject, which I'm not entirely familiar with and wish to be. Anyway here is my question I am familiar with dating, however I am asking this. How do you handle and proceed in dating someone who also happens to be a parent? The reason is, I never dated anyone who is a parent and interested in knowing how its like. One more thing, is it okay to actually date someone is also divorced also ? This is my first time writing this and I welcome honest ... read more →

Posted by: uplay
Canada, North Bay
Posted: 2020-11-19 03:14:19

  Girl on a train

Typed a load of stuff and not accepted so reluctant to type again.. Met on a train and we conversed for 2-3 years and got really friendly. We would find one another in different carriages and when busy would sit alongside each other. We conversed freely and joked and laughed and I fell deeply in love with her. Suddenly, she started using a different carriage and when I questioned her as to whether I had said something wrong, she said 'oh no not at all'. We got on brilliantly.. never a cross w... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-11-13 20:20:53

  Not sure what to do

I've been married for 16 years now. Everything was great. About 3 years ago my wife has become very mean and standoffish. I thought she was cheating I GPS her phone and car, checked her text and emails. Nothing. She doesn't even go out. At about the same time, she quit having s*x with me. Every time I have asked. I'm too tired. I don't know what to do. I've had no s*x for 3 years. I tried intimate dinners. Little special things for her. Just don't know what to do. I really just want to find a fr... read more →

Posted by: eldiablo6369
United States, Hampton
Posted: 2020-11-12 03:43:40

  Update of Email notifications

Has anyone else ever have this problem. I try to update my email preferences to receive one message a day and it says this is not available. If anyone has any information about how to do this please reply to this post. I have tried multiple times and I can't get it to work. Again the update preferences does not work for me. Maybe Flirthut can answer this question. It is very frustrating. It is also frustrating trying to get to 500 characters in order for this post to work. Again I need 500 chara... read more →

Posted by: Matt5969
United States, Rockford
Posted: 2020-10-09 02:35:26

  Looking for a lady after my traumatic brain injury

First off I am 41 and have never been in a serious long-term relationship. I have felt most of my life I wanted a girl or lady in my life to spend time with and do stuff together, but I had a traumatic brain injury when I was 6 that caused me to live my life from then until now with anxiety and depression. I didn't find out until my mid-30s it was anxiety and depression I had been living with for most of my life. I am on medication for both now. I hope since I found this out pretty late it's... read more →

Posted by: Richard1978
United States, Boonville
Posted: 2020-10-08 07:18:44

  strange man

I meet a man online and we dated for 6 months. We finally meet and later discover he was married with kids what should i do with that kind of men also am in love with him......am so confused on what to do now .. I cant stop thinking about him all the time please advice me on what to do ....am losing my mind at the moment in life i need serious help and a brillant advice with idea with all pleasure..... been single for 2 years is not an easy tasks life must continue as usual i need a sincere man ... read more →

Posted by: c_patterson
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-09-06 20:45:08

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  Fell in love with Women older than me..

I find dating older women adds something, the woman you're dating who is in their 50s (will say) will have a lot to offer, such as teachings, life experiences and more....

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  Intimacy during lockdown - surely it was meant to ge...

I'm going through they same thing. Same answers. It start before covid 19. What do you do?...

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  More woman than I could possibly handle

not exactly, he just trying to say that there are many online dating type such as ONS or Flings or affair....

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  Cheating

Well, I am sure many men cheat, as many women do too. But I am sure too, that there are many men who doesn't cheat, as well as a woman. But we remember the bad things in life more easily than good things. Let the hope never die....

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  Cheating

My ex was talking to another guy behind my back, although they never did anything while we was together or so she says. She eventually left me for him, so yeah woman cheat too talking to another guy s*xual is cheating....

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  Cheating

All men you say? Not all men. Stop listening to liberal media. It is not true. There are some good men out there and second of all, there are also women who would cheat too! Think about that....

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Girl on a train

Typed a load of stuff and not accepted so reluctant to type again.. Met on a train and we conversed for 2-3 years and got really friendly. We would find one another in different carriages and when busy would sit alongside each other. We conversed freely and joked and laughed and I fell deeply in love with her. Suddenly, she started using a different carriage and when I questioned her as to whether I had said something wrong, she said 'oh no not at all'. We got on brilliantly.. never a cross w... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2020-11-13 20:20:53

  Dating A Parent/Divorced

Hello, this is my first ever post on this particular subject, which I'm not entirely familiar with and wish to be. Anyway here is my question I am familiar with dating, however I am asking this. How do you handle and proceed in dating someone who also happens to be a parent? The reason is, I never dated anyone who is a parent and interested in knowing how its like. One more thing, is it okay to actually date someone is also divorced also ? This is my first time writing this and I welcome honest ... read more →

Posted by: uplay
Canada, North Bay
Posted: 2020-11-19 03:14:19

  Not sure what to do

I've been married for 16 years now. Everything was great. About 3 years ago my wife has become very mean and standoffish. I thought she was cheating I GPS her phone and car, checked her text and emails. Nothing. She doesn't even go out. At about the same time, she quit having s*x with me. Every time I have asked. I'm too tired. I don't know what to do. I've had no s*x for 3 years. I tried intimate dinners. Little special things for her. Just don't know what to do. I really just want to find a fr... read more →

Posted by: eldiablo6369
United States, Hampton
Posted: 2020-11-12 03:43:40