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Questions, answers and advice on all dating matters

Welcome to the Flirthut dating forum and singles chat for all things dating related. Members and guests can use our forum freely - you don't have to register to access or contribute to any part of our forum. All posts are fully moderated before they appear online - for obvious reasons. We will endeavour to limit what we correct, but for the benefit of all our users, grammar and spelling will be corrected where appropriate. Postings with lots of errors will be ignored. Keep it clean, constructive and informative and it'll show up once we've checked it! If you're not a member, you can leave an email address (optional) so that we can contact you when your post or comment has been published.

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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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How To Be Irresistible To Women - 3 TIPS!

To be irresistible means to be so adorable and delightful, that you're impossible to resist. Meeting women and being irresistible to them will not happen overnight, however hang on, there are some things that you can do to hype yourself up and become irresistible. Sounds impossible? By the time you finish this article, you will have gained a new perception. Here are 6 simple tips to help you become irresistible to women. 1. Work On Your Posture: I bet you didn't expect th... read more →

Posted by: Juanes33
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-08-15 22:23:54

Why men are not attracted to me

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very passionate about many issues like the environment and social justice movements. I tried online dating at eharmony for six months but didn't meet anyone. Actually zero conversations from it. Sometimes I t... read more →

Posted by: Lilliam
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-07-23 02:03:39

Mr Nice Guy?

What do the girls mean when they say I need a Mr nice guy in my life? Well i really have tried to figure it out myself - done so many research. It seems so simple and understandable when you look to it by the sentence presented in simple English, Mr. nice guy... Well I bet we all understand it in a different meaning. Some take it to be handsome guy, some say a rich guy that is handsome. What do the girls really mean by that sentence, Mr. nice guy? I bet they should say a full meaning of it becau... read more →

Posted by: mrtodmiller
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-30 15:00:07

Genuinely confused

Alright, I seem to be having trouble getting women in my life and i don't know whether it's because I'm really ugly or not. I can't seem to find a genuine girl for me without them knowing I'm rich. They're all gold diggers and it really hurts to know that women are only after your money just because i look ugly... Can i get some advice or any tips?... read more →

Posted by: Payne
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-26 19:44:51

I sleep with strange men in hotels

I've always been very s*xually active ever since I was an early teenager. I'm now 34 and even more s*xually active. Some people have described my insatiable behaviour as something I need help with so I'm hoping I can get some advice from someone here and hopefully hear from others who share a similar problem with me.

I’m a professional female and I stay in hotels a lot

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Posted by: Melissa C
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-05-26 22:30:58

More woman than I could possibly handle

Many years ago (before internet dating), following a 'Personal ad.,' I secured a blind date via the telephone with breathless Linda who I suspected of working out at the time I called, but she said not. We agreed to meet at a restaurant. Our meeting was somewhat surprising as, by Linda's own admission, she weighed thirty two stones (203 kg.). She asked if I minded her weight? Of course I replied 'No.' Anyway, I had not taken a klaxton and trainers with me, and what harm could her weight do? ... read more →

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Location unknown,
Posted: 2019-01-27 23:34:53

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