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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Wants to be loved by Women older than me..

Hey, I'm a young guy wanting to be loved by women of older age (27-45). Is there something wrong with it? I mean it's not like that I wanna f*ck them like rabbits, I just feel that having a mature woman by your side is an amazing feeling and it comforts me and kinda make me feel good about myself. I'm just a young guy not getting girls of my age because all of them either want loads of cash or a huge ****. I know there are women out there who are alone, emotionally broke and wanted to be loved. ... read more →

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Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-11-20 08:24:13

  Fell in love with Women older than me..

Hey, I'm Sameer and I'm looking for a long distance older/mature girlfriend but I don't know how to approach a woman with a massive age gap b/w me and her. I'm young but I can be a partner who is always there when you need him and I actually prefer to be in love with older women because girls of my age are not as mature or straight to the point. Mature Woman don't play those games and making her smile is an amazing feeling. So? Any advice on how should I approach or what should I say/do?... read more →

Posted by: Sameer1020
United States, Kennedy
Posted: 2019-11-20 01:11:11

  Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?

I've been hanging out with this girl but I don't know her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." Usually the "I'll call you" is a lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing. We were being playful and flirty right before so I honestly don't know if she will or not.... read more →

Posted by: Drivenfuture
United States, Denton
Posted: 2019-10-22 02:41:11

  I found him on Bumble and he wouldn't leave me alone

I've been single for a couple of years and only recently plucked up the courage to trying online dating. Before this, I was in a long term relationship and was with my ex for well over 15 years. Getting back on the dating scene has been really scary for me. Some friends recommended Tinder and Bumble so I signed up for those a few months ago hoping they'd be relatively problem free.

I didn't know what I was getting myself into

Having never u... read more →

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United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-10-14 15:45:22

  Love or lust?

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on lust. The other day, I was telling a friend of mine about my new partner and they asked me a few questions about them. I realized I didn't know the answer. That's when I began to question myself. I h... read more →

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Posted: 2019-09-25 12:32:28

  Would you date someone with herpes?

I've started dating a really cool lady who I get on so well with. We've been on a few dates now but haven't slept together yet although we started to get more intimate with each other. The other day, I went to her place and we sat cuddling in front of the TV when she hit me with it. She told me she has herpes and that it wasn't anything for me to worry about as it isn't contagious unless she is having an attack. I don't know much about herpes other than it's an STD. My initial reaction was prett... read more →

Posted by: Sam
United States,
Posted: 2019-09-25 08:57:26

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  Real men

Actually, if you want to be friends with guys, I can be your friend, (decent friendship relation) I'm kinda young but I'm a great listener and also I'm kind of a person who is more into women older than him so if you wanna chat or talk about anything and if u wanna be friends, send me your Instagram username. And one last thing, you are Amazing the Way u Are and Don't let any pervert man define u who u are....

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  Multiple Dating Etiquette

Tell him that you are meeting a friend and that is all that...

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  No one compares to my ex

Jen... You are a crazy stalker. I hate to break it to you. If your ex is refusing to take your calls. That's a big sign.. You are just not wanting to read it. When you find yourself single the best thing you can do is take this time to figure out who YOU are.. Don't just jump into another relationship right away. There is a reason your husband split from you. Figure out that reason and if it is something that you are doing that drove him away-fix it. Take some yoga classes. Learn to meditate. Re...

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  Spending Christmas Alone Again

OP, did you ever meet someone? I know how much loneliness hurts, and sorry you have experienced it. I'm only a woman, but my advice: Just keep an open mind. Sometimes, life will throw you lovely opportunities : - )...

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  I found him on Bumble and he wouldn't leave me alone

That'd nuts! Surely the law needs to do something? Your being stalked plain and simple....

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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  20 questions to ask a girl

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Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  Fell in love with Women older than me..

Hey, I'm Sameer and I'm looking for a long distance older/mature girlfriend but I don't know how to approach a woman with a massive age gap b/w me and her. I'm young but I can be a partner who is always there when you need him and I actually prefer to be in love with older women because girls of my age are not as mature or straight to the point. Mature Woman don't play those games and making her smile is an amazing feeling. So? Any advice on how should I approach or what should I say/do?... read more →

Posted by: Sameer1020
United States, Kennedy
Posted: 2019-11-20 01:11:11

  Wants to be loved by Women older than me..

Hey, I'm a young guy wanting to be loved by women of older age (27-45). Is there something wrong with it? I mean it's not like that I wanna f*ck them like rabbits, I just feel that having a mature woman by your side is an amazing feeling and it comforts me and kinda make me feel good about myself. I'm just a young guy not getting girls of my age because all of them either want loads of cash or a huge ****. I know there are women out there who are alone, emotionally broke and wanted to be loved. ... read more →

Posted by:
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-11-20 08:24:13

  Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?

I've been hanging out with this girl but I don't know her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." Usually the "I'll call you" is a lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing. We were being playful and flirty right before so I honestly don't know if she will or not.... read more →

Posted by: Drivenfuture
United States, Denton
Posted: 2019-10-22 02:41:11