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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  How To Be Irresistible To Women - 3 TIPS!

To be irresistible means to be so adorable and delightful, that you're impossible to resist. Meeting women and being irresistible to them will not happen overnight, however hang on, there are some things that you can do to hype yourself up and become irresistible. Sounds impossible? By the time you finish this article, you will have gained a new perception. Here are 6 simple tips to help you become irresistible to women. 1. Work On Your Posture: I bet you didn't expect th... read more →

Posted by: Juanes33
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-08-15 22:23:54

  Why men are not attracted to me

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very passionate about many issues like the environment and social justice movements. I tried online dating at eharmony for six months but didn't meet anyone. Actually zero conversations from it. Sometimes I t... read more →

Posted by: Lilliam
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-07-23 02:03:39

  Mr Nice Guy?

What do the girls mean when they say I need a Mr nice guy in my life? Well i really have tried to figure it out myself - done so many research. It seems so simple and understandable when you look to it by the sentence presented in simple English, Mr. nice guy... Well I bet we all understand it in a different meaning. Some take it to be handsome guy, some say a rich guy that is handsome. What do the girls really mean by that sentence, Mr. nice guy? I bet they should say a full meaning of it becau... read more →

Posted by: mrtodmiller
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-30 15:00:07

  Genuinely confused

Alright, I seem to be having trouble getting women in my life and i don't know whether it's because I'm really ugly or not. I can't seem to find a genuine girl for me without them knowing I'm rich. They're all gold diggers and it really hurts to know that women are only after your money just because i look ugly... Can i get some advice or any tips?... read more →

Posted by: Payne
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-26 19:44:51

  I sleep with strange men in hotels

I've always been very s*xually active ever since I was an early teenager. I'm now 34 and even more s*xually active. Some people have described my insatiable behaviour as something I need help with so I'm hoping I can get some advice from someone here and hopefully hear from others who share a similar problem with me.

I’m a professional female and I stay in hotels a lot

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Posted by: Melissa C
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-05-26 22:30:58

  More woman than I could possibly handle

Many years ago (before internet dating), following a 'Personal ad.,' I secured a blind date via the telephone with breathless Linda who I suspected of working out at the time I called, but she said not. We agreed to meet at a restaurant. Our meeting was somewhat surprising as, by Linda's own admission, she weighed thirty two stones (203 kg.). She asked if I minded her weight? Of course I replied 'No.' Anyway, I had not taken a klaxton and trainers with me, and what harm could her weight do? ... read more →

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  His kids are ruining our relationship

I have been dating couple of single parents. It's quite a serious thing to do like if you get into it you have to love everything about it. An all in one package. For now, I'm not ready for one, which is why i choose private dates for fun....

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  Why men are not attracted to me

hi if no guy makes a move on you just reverse situation and you hit up on one if you like the look of them. just general chat to begin with you may be surprised how quickly things change for you. good luck and keep on looking someone will pop up trust yourself. xx...

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  Why men are not attracted to me

Please stop putting yourself short if the guys you wont to chat to are not interested in you then that's their loss not yours. You sound like a fun person to spend time with and I like walking on the sand and movie and cuddle's on the sofa, rubbing sore feet after a hard day, so chin up and walk tall....

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  Genuinely confused

You are not ugly. Find a different class of women. When u find one don't let her know u have money until she is going to invest herself in u....

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  Mr Nice Guy?

Listener communication. Affectionate uplifting makes u smile feel loved and cared for helping hand. Honesty loyalty respect and the list goes on....

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  More woman than I could possibly handle

Not sure what you're trying to say here... Is this a dig at people (ladies) that are over-weight?...

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My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  How To Be Irresistible To Women - 3 TIPS!

To be irresistible means to be so adorable and delightful, that you're impossible to resist. Meeting women and being irresistible to them will not happen overnight, however hang on, there are some things that you can do to hype yourself up and become irresistible. Sounds impossible? By the time you finish this article, you will have gained a new perception. Here are 6 simple tips to help you become irresistible to women. 1. Work On Your Posture: I bet you didn't expect th... read more →

Posted by: Juanes33
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-08-15 22:23:54

  Genuinely confused

Alright, I seem to be having trouble getting women in my life and i don't know whether it's because I'm really ugly or not. I can't seem to find a genuine girl for me without them knowing I'm rich. They're all gold diggers and it really hurts to know that women are only after your money just because i look ugly... Can i get some advice or any tips?... read more →

Posted by: Payne
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-26 19:44:51

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

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