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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Mr Nice Guy?

What do the girls mean when they say I need a Mr nice guy in my life? Well i really have tried to figure it out myself - done so many research. It seems so simple and understandable when you look to it by the sentence presented in simple English, Mr. nice guy... Well I bet we all understand it in a different meaning. Some take it to be handsome guy, some say a rich guy that is handsome. What do the girls really mean by that sentence, Mr. nice guy? I bet they should say a full meaning of it becau... read more →

Posted by: mrtodmiller
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-30 15:00:07

  Genuinely confused

Alright, I seem to be having trouble getting women in my life and i don't know whether it's because I'm really ugly or not. I can't seem to find a genuine girl for me without them knowing I'm rich. They're all gold diggers and it really hurts to know that women are only after your money just because i look ugly... Can i get some advice or any tips?... read more →

Posted by: Payne
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-26 19:44:51

  I sleep with strange men in hotels

I've always been very s*xually active ever since I was an early teenager. I'm now 34 and even more s*xually active. Some people have described my insatiable behaviour as something I need help with so I'm hoping I can get some advice from someone here and hopefully hear from others who share a similar problem with me.

I’m a professional female and I stay in hotels a lot

I'm a single woman working in bespoke software development. I have a gre... read more →

Posted by: Melissa C
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-05-26 22:30:58

  More woman than I could possibly handle

Many years ago (before internet dating), following a 'Personal ad.,' I secured a blind date via the telephone with breathless Linda who I suspected of working out at the time I called, but she said not. We agreed to meet at a restaurant. Our meeting was somewhat surprising as, by Linda's own admission, she weighed thirty two stones (203 kg.). She asked if I minded her weight? Of course I replied 'No.' Anyway, I had not taken a klaxton and trainers with me, and what harm could her weight do? ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2019-01-27 23:34:53

  why do "nice guys" finish last?

I am a 100% straight guy, an only parent of 2 kids and I have been a widower for 6 years. I've also been alone for that 6 years. I have been branded as a "nice guy" many times, which feels like a curse, because, even though they say they do, women just dont want a nice guy. So, what do women want? An egotistical asshole that treats them like shit? Why?! So how should I treat women? I'm sick of being so lonely & depressed, and just want to find a lasting relationship. Also, where should i try to... read more →

Posted by: JR
United States,
Posted: 2019-01-01 11:19:10

  Real men

Can a girl ever find true love and not get heart broken? Is there really true men out there? Can true love always last forever?... read more →

Posted by: Laraphill
United States, Cambridge
Posted: 2019-01-01 11:13:17

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  Genuinely confused

Mate there's nothing wrong with how you look. In my books, you're a good looking guy. You haven't seen the state of me. Most women are just after what's in your wallet. That's my experience. So find one that has something to offer you too....

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  My girlfriend is a cuckquean

Me and my partner have the same setup. It started as a fantasy thing but has now gone beyond that and turned into just the normal routine. Like you say, it's not an issue with each other but more with the people you sleep with. You're not alone though. There are others out there like you (me!). I really love what I do and it's the only way I can get enough se*xual satisfaction. It can be hard though at times and I often find myself feeling very guilty for the women that don't know I'm technicall...

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  I sleep with strange men in hotels

I had to laugh at the comment from Shanewales! So like Shanewales, how exactly are you proposing helping her? Hunny, I think you need professional help. It really isn't right to be doing what you do. Spiritually it can't be good for you and one day, you'll get a dreaded STD for sure. You sound like a decent soul and I hope you can sort this out quickly....

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  I sleep with strange men in hotels

Hi there. A very common issue I would imagine. The first step to resolving this issue is to get in touch with me. I'll talk you through the next steps from there....

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  Genuinely confused

i am new here, but one question: How do women in your state treat their men?...

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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United Kingdom, Luton
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  Mr Nice Guy?

What do the girls mean when they say I need a Mr nice guy in my life? Well i really have tried to figure it out myself - done so many research. It seems so simple and understandable when you look to it by the sentence presented in simple English, Mr. nice guy... Well I bet we all understand it in a different meaning. Some take it to be handsome guy, some say a rich guy that is handsome. What do the girls really mean by that sentence, Mr. nice guy? I bet they should say a full meaning of it becau... read more →

Posted by: mrtodmiller
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-30 15:00:07

  Genuinely confused

Alright, I seem to be having trouble getting women in my life and i don't know whether it's because I'm really ugly or not. I can't seem to find a genuine girl for me without them knowing I'm rich. They're all gold diggers and it really hurts to know that women are only after your money just because i look ugly... Can i get some advice or any tips?... read more →

Posted by: Payne
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2019-06-26 19:44:51

  I sleep with strange men in hotels

I've always been very s*xually active ever since I was an early teenager. I'm now 34 and even more s*xually active. Some people have described my insatiable behaviour as something I need help with so I'm hoping I can get some advice from someone here and hopefully hear from others who share a similar problem with me.

I’m a professional female and I stay in hotels a lot

I'm a single woman working in bespoke software development. I have a gre... read more →

Posted by: Melissa C
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-05-26 22:30:58