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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  My experience

I would like to share my story to help others. I had a relationship that ended badly. They broke my heart and I had a serious emotional breakdown but I came out the other side. My advice is you have to value yourself. The break up is not because you're not good enough. Things change and so do our thoughts, so do people. Some find happiness forever and some people's thought process changes. It's no one's fault. You're not to blame. Things happen for a reason and the minute you let go you realise ... read more →

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United Kingdom, Halstead
Posted: 2020-07-02 07:09:54

  Pandemic

Why don't people want to wear mask? For thousands of people around the world, COVID-19 has been severe or deadly. But for a large group of individuals, the illness has been practically invisible. These individuals are known as “asymptomatic carriers.” They often display no symptoms at all, or their symptoms are so insignificant they hardly notice them. Anyone, regardless of age, can have an asymptomatic case of the virus. This phenomenon isn’t unique to COVID-19 either ― most infection symptoms ... read more →

Posted by: OUTLANDER007
United States, Mobile
Posted: 2020-06-28 01:39:46

  How do I keep getting up in the morning?

How do I keep getting up in the morning? My partner and I split up 2 months ago, after 7 years together. Devastated doesn't even come close. I can't get out of bed, I can't sleep when I'm there, I cry constantly. If I make it to work I snap at everyone all day, then burst into tears. I know my friends are avoiding me because they think I should just 'get over it' but I can't I'm a mess. I've lost 2 stones which I guess is a plus but I just have a hole in my heart and feel sick constantly. Will I... read more →

Posted by: Jody1
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-06-27 06:11:34

  Absolutely lost in what to do when starting over mee...

Absolutely lost in what to do when starting over meeting a new woman. I think we all get complacent in our relationships and forget what's important and how to conduct ourselves! I do genuinely feel I have a lot to offer a partner but how do I get there in the first place? I do find it incredibly hard to meet new people and be myself and recently find I distrust people for no real reason. So what do I do to get past this and start to get on with my life again or do I just give up and go it alone... read more →

Posted by: Jody1
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-06-26 04:25:27

  Me

1. Communication is the most important in a relationship. Some people say it is the key. Without communication, everything falls apart. It matters in a friendship, intimate relationship, business, or work relationship. The lack of communication sends the message of not being interested anymore, or the willingness of breaking up, without hurting the feelings of the other one. 2. Honesty is important, because otherwise, the person you are in a relationship with, can get the wrong idea of your i... read more →

Posted by: Jody1
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-06-25 10:56:25

  Starting over

Absolutely lost in what to do when starting over meeting a new woman. I think we all get complacent in our relationships and forget what's important and how to conduct ourselves! I do genuinely feel i have a lot to offer a partner but how do i get there in the first place? I do find it incredibly hard to meet new people and be myself and recently find i distrust people for no real reason. So what do i do to get past this and start to get on with my life again or do i just give up and go it alone... read more →

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My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  Me

1. Communication is the most important in a relationship. Some people say it is the key. Without communication, everything falls apart. It matters in a friendship, intimate relationship, business, or work relationship. The lack of communication sends the message of not being interested anymore, or the willingness of breaking up, without hurting the feelings of the other one. 2. Honesty is important, because otherwise, the person you are in a relationship with, can get the wrong idea of your i... read more →

Posted by: Jody1
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-06-25 10:56:25

  My experience

I would like to share my story to help others. I had a relationship that ended badly. They broke my heart and I had a serious emotional breakdown but I came out the other side. My advice is you have to value yourself. The break up is not because you're not good enough. Things change and so do our thoughts, so do people. Some find happiness forever and some people's thought process changes. It's no one's fault. You're not to blame. Things happen for a reason and the minute you let go you realise ... read more →

Posted by: S3xC1
United Kingdom, Halstead
Posted: 2020-07-02 07:09:54

  Pandemic

Why don't people want to wear mask? For thousands of people around the world, COVID-19 has been severe or deadly. But for a large group of individuals, the illness has been practically invisible. These individuals are known as “asymptomatic carriers.” They often display no symptoms at all, or their symptoms are so insignificant they hardly notice them. Anyone, regardless of age, can have an asymptomatic case of the virus. This phenomenon isn’t unique to COVID-19 either ― most infection symptoms ... read more →

Posted by: OUTLANDER007
United States, Mobile
Posted: 2020-06-28 01:39:46