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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Getting asked for money

Why is it that you you finally find the right mate on here and it turns out to be a scam. This girl on here is so attractive and quite the sweet talker. Until she asked me to send her money for female hygienic products and something for pain only after three days of conversation. She also got me to move to a different chat site. She won't add me to facebook and I can't get her email....(even though she insisted on getting mine) so it sounds like a scam right? She insists it isn't! But, I live in... read more →

Posted by: JimmyD
Canada, Bridgewater
Posted: 2024-04-07 17:59:20

  Friends with benefits includes intimacy or not?

Friends care for each other and friends ought to have each other's backs. But in a situation where you have an opposite s*x friend acting jealous or reprimanding you concerning your love life whereas it's just a matter of being friends with each other; 1 should intimacy be added or 2 must friends with benefits end in intimacy? Or what should we say is friends with benefits? Can those in marriage or relationship have friends with benefits and what could possibly be reasons behind it? Same time... read more →

Posted by: Gafolu
Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2023-10-26 09:12:49

  My hilarious dating encounter

It was a sunny afternoon when I decided to explore the world of online dating connections. Little did I know that this decision would lead to one of the most amusing experiences of my life. Among the sea of profiles, one particular username stood out – "AdventureSeeker." Intrigued by the name, I couldn't resist striking up a conversation. To my delight, "AdventureSeeker" turned out to be a vivacious and witty individual with a zest for life. Our messages were filled with laughter and shared i... read more →

Posted by: Helen
United States,
Posted: 2023-07-24 12:51:22

  Should a girl never have guy friends?

Hi All, I am 33 years old and have never been in any relationship. I am outgoing and easy to talk to, but never has a guy taken interest in me. I would say that I have been bro-zoned a lot of times. Recently I met a guy who actually treated me like a girl and took interest in me. My loud laugh, my weight, my dusky look didn't matter to him. I have developed a soft spot for him and we started dating. However he says that I shouldn't have any male friends and should never converse with them... read more →

Posted by: Nia
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2023-05-15 21:44:14

  What is the best thing to write in your dating profi...

I searched the internet for the question of what to write in your profile and found this to be one of the best idea: "My name is (whatever) and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm fifty-five years old, with muddy brown hair, deathly pale waxy skin, and cold, dead fish eyes. In my spare time I sit in front of the PC, read, gamble or read and gamble while I am sitting in front of the PC. I'm indifferent, boring, neurotic and not particularly bright. I can't think of any positive character traits at ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2023-03-03 19:42:01

  Why do men cheat on their girlfriend that they claim...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me by sleeping with his female colleague at work. He was very friendly with most of his female colleagues at work, I thought that he was just been friendly with his colleagues which is very good considering the fact that it is healthy for person to be friendly with the people around him or her. Unfortunately, I was mistaken to say the least, I came to his house without his notice because he gave me his spare keys, so I decided to pay him a visit without his notice. ... read more →

Posted by: Zhaoxian
China, Guangzhou
Posted: 2022-11-21 10:58:02

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Hi my name is Miles from Vancouver Canada many ladies tell me I'm very good looking but women never seem to look at me why is this?...

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I’ve been divorced for over a year and raising a disabled daughter who’s in her teens by myself is hard without a partner. I keep telling myself in time I will find that special person...

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  Should a girl never have guy friends?

As a divorced older male, lots of my girlfriends and ex wife had guy friends. I trusted them and that’s part of the issue here. Some of them broke that trust and I sent them on their way, it hurt but wasn’t meant to be. If he has chosen you to be with he should trust you...

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  I don't want to break up but I know I have to

My dear you deserve better... It really hard but you must MOVE ON so when next he sees you... He should be filled with Regret of EVER CHEATING ON You. So upgrade...

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  strange man

As a man, my advice for you, really, is to pursue with the relationship as a lover. I know you love him but, get over it. This guy will NEVER leave his wife for you because it's too expensive to divorce a woman with kids. Even if he did, this, lowlife will do the same with you like he did his wife. So enjoy the time you have with him, just don't expect a future with him....

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Getting asked for money

Why is it that you you finally find the right mate on here and it turns out to be a scam. This girl on here is so attractive and quite the sweet talker. Until she asked me to send her money for female hygienic products and something for pain only after three days of conversation. She also got me to move to a different chat site. She won't add me to facebook and I can't get her email....(even though she insisted on getting mine) so it sounds like a scam right? She insists it isn't! But, I live in... read more →

Posted by: JimmyD
Canada, Bridgewater
Posted: 2024-04-07 17:59:20

  Friends with benefits includes intimacy or not?

Friends care for each other and friends ought to have each other's backs. But in a situation where you have an opposite s*x friend acting jealous or reprimanding you concerning your love life whereas it's just a matter of being friends with each other; 1 should intimacy be added or 2 must friends with benefits end in intimacy? Or what should we say is friends with benefits? Can those in marriage or relationship have friends with benefits and what could possibly be reasons behind it? Same time... read more →

Posted by: Gafolu
Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2023-10-26 09:12:49

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18