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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

Widower?
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Widower?

Just getting over losing my lady, you gotta have fam and friends to help but as long as you got a strong mind and confidence that there is something worth carrying on for, and it would help having a woman good view of life (any offers?) if anyone has got any more advice or just want to chat if you've got the same issues with life, then by all means jump in (preferably female lol). I lost my wife earlier this year and have had a pretty grim time of it, and now am alone in a big house in the middl... read more →

Posted by: Biffulobill
United Kingdom, Larkhall
Posted Jun 07, 2026 - 0 views

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