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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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Hey everyone! I hope you’re all doing well! I’m reaching out because I would really love to get some advice on a few dating matters that have been on my mind lately. The world of dating, whether it’s first dates, online interactions, or navigating relationships, can be quite overwhelming. I think many of us have been there, feeling a mix of excitement and anxiety! So, I would greatly appreciate hearing your valuable experiences and insights. Here are my questions: What should I do if I’m n... read more →

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Hey everyone! I wanted to start a conversation about one of the most exciting yet nerve-wracking parts of online dating: the first chat and the first encounter! Whether you’re new to online dating or have been at it for a while, these initial steps can sometimes feel overwhelming. Here are a few thoughts and tips I’ve gathered from my experiences, and I’d love to hear yours too! The First Chat: Keep It Light and Fun: Starting off with humour or light-hearted questions can help break the ic... read more →

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United States, Central Bridge
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At thirty, I had started to feel like life was passing me by. Most of my friends had found their partners and started families, but I was still alone. My job consumed most of my time, leaving little room for a personal life. I had almost resigned myself to the idea that maybe love wasn't in the cards for me. One evening, after another exhausting day at work, I decided to sign up for an online dating site. I was sceptical but figured it was worth a shot. After creating my profile and filling o... read more →

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