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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Is there a drama free relationship?

One of my best friends had asked me during our regular conversation "Is there a drama-free relationship"? My answer was if by "DRAMA" you mean a partner being distressed when you show a lack of concern or an attempt or admiration, then no, there are no relationships where your partner has zero hope or wants of their own. After some time people start to feel neglected and disappointed. They have expectations of what companionship should be like, and this is not what they'd hope hoped for. ... read more →

Posted by: strthawk
United States, Lilburn
Posted: 2022-03-31 13:34:00

  Stranger s*x on vacation or business trips

Like one other forum post that was presented earlier here, I too have enjoyed many an anonymous, or stranger s*x, encounter while staying at motels/hotels . . . Most were when I was working for a major corporation and travelling on business across the USA, many other casual encounters occurred while I was relaxing on vacation, usually in a tropical southeastern state . . . I harbor very good memories of a visit to Durango, Colorado, way back in '77 or '78 . . . While on an extended stay at a... read more →

Posted by: Love2eatin
United States, Indianapolis
Posted: 2021-11-01 13:47:11

  What did you expect?

Internet and social media came as the second flooding of the Earth to leave all it's people surfing in the sea of never ending temptation and opportunity. Loyalty drowned in this sea and respect floats adrift on a lifeboat named honesty which leaves higher chance of finding Bigfoot in the forest before finding loyalty's ghost in the sea. Broken hearts are self inflicted as we allow it to happen by standing in the line of fire knowing the likelyhood of being shot down. Everyone proclaims thems... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2021-08-23 09:33:05

  Scammers paradise

I've been on this site for quite a while now and have been contacted by a long stream of seemingly attractive young ladies. Unfortunately, they are not what they seem to be. So, all of these ladies were not what they should be from their really nice interesting profiles. How can this be? Why so few contacts from local women and yet many from Near New York? It doesn't make much sense to me. The quality of English used is on a very poor level - which is in sharp contrast to the lovely photos on t... read more →

Posted by: michael2042
United Kingdom, Birmingham
Posted: 2021-08-03 19:53:24

  What Do Women Want From Men?

The answer to this question has not yet been found. What a difficult question. There are answers to the most difficult questions in science, mathematics, and science, but what women want and wisdom is still a subject of research. Books are written about this question, movies are shot, it is the subject of discussion, but unfortunately, there is no answer. Actually, we need to change this question. If you ask why, What Women Want is a general question. What do women want from whom and what? Is... read more →

Posted by: ozkankarakaya
United States, Arcadia
Posted: 2021-04-24 19:37:55

  Dating location

Hello, Uplay here, I am currently looking for advice on, which dating spot is a good place to start? (especially when to do to it, on the appropriate weather). I'm talking of course in a local area or city. For me? there are a few options, but many are restaurant-related which is fine but not ideal in my opinion. Anyway, I'm wondering where to start off on a simple date. Thanks for reading and sorry if I seem dumb for asking this. The following I forgot I am willing to go, is a hiking trail and ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2021-02-03 02:30:41

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  Sex urge

I enjoy s*x more now in my 30’s than when I was younger...

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  No Intimacy

Hi, I feel for you, maybe an explanation this way, s*x drive if not met affects ppl, down and snappy and so on, it’s as natural as dogs barking. As it’s in your nature to have a s*x drive.. when met it releases endorphins etc try that explanation...

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  Urge of Men Over 30

Maybe you can sign some date site....

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  Urge of Men Over 30

May be in some date site you can find more sexy ladies....

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  Scammers paradise

We truly do understand your frustration as tackling scammers is something we have had to do since our inception. Introducing character limits is something that helps. One of the biggest issues we’ve faced recently is with how traffic is diverted to our website. Because we are a small, independent dating site when compared to the more mainstream services, search engines have reduced the priority they used to once give us. This has sadly made it very difficult for us to promote our service and thu...

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  No one compares to my ex

Realize that every human is unique, that's why we love them. Move on to another unique person!...

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Is there a drama free relationship?

One of my best friends had asked me during our regular conversation "Is there a drama-free relationship"? My answer was if by "DRAMA" you mean a partner being distressed when you show a lack of concern or an attempt or admiration, then no, there are no relationships where your partner has zero hope or wants of their own. After some time people start to feel neglected and disappointed. They have expectations of what companionship should be like, and this is not what they'd hope hoped for. ... read more →

Posted by: strthawk
United States, Lilburn
Posted: 2022-03-31 13:34:00

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18

  What did you expect?

Internet and social media came as the second flooding of the Earth to leave all it's people surfing in the sea of never ending temptation and opportunity. Loyalty drowned in this sea and respect floats adrift on a lifeboat named honesty which leaves higher chance of finding Bigfoot in the forest before finding loyalty's ghost in the sea. Broken hearts are self inflicted as we allow it to happen by standing in the line of fire knowing the likelyhood of being shot down. Everyone proclaims thems... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2021-08-23 09:33:05