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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  How genuine are people on Bumble and Tinder?

I've been on Bumble and Tinder for a bit but a lot of ladies on there are escorts to my surprise. I fell into the trap of almost going on a date with one until she started talking about money. What really annoys me the most is how much time I wasted chatting to her. Things were going so well and it was a real boost for my ego that's already low. She seemed so genuine and was interested in what I had to say. She even told me about how long she'd been a member on Bumble and how many dates she'd ha... read more →

Posted by: Scotty
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2020-01-22 10:04:59

  Wants to be loved by Women older than me..

Hey, I'm a young guy wanting to be loved by women of older age (27-45). Is there something wrong with it? I mean it's not like that I wanna f*ck them like rabbits, I just feel that having a mature woman by your side is an amazing feeling and it comforts me and kinda make me feel good about myself. I'm just a young guy not getting girls of my age because all of them either want loads of cash or a huge ****. I know there are women out there who are alone, emotionally broke and wanted to be loved. ... read more →

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Posted: 2019-11-20 08:24:13

  Fell in love with Women older than me..

Hey, I'm Sameer and I'm looking for a long distance older/mature girlfriend but I don't know how to approach a woman with a massive age gap b/w me and her. I'm young but I can be a partner who is always there when you need him and I actually prefer to be in love with older women because girls of my age are not as mature or straight to the point. Mature Woman don't play those games and making her smile is an amazing feeling. So? Any advice on how should I approach or what should I say/do?... read more →

Posted by: Sameer1020
United States, Kennedy
Posted: 2019-11-20 01:11:11

  Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?

I've been hanging out with this girl but I don't know her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." Usually the "I'll call you" is a lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing. We were being playful and flirty right before so I honestly don't know if she will or not.... read more →

Posted by: Drivenfuture
United States, Denton
Posted: 2019-10-22 02:41:11

  I found him on Bumble and he wouldn't leave me alone

I've been single for a couple of years and only recently plucked up the courage to trying online dating. Before this, I was in a long term relationship and was with my ex for well over 15 years. Getting back on the dating scene has been really scary for me. Some friends recommended Tinder and Bumble so I signed up for those a few months ago hoping they'd be relatively problem free.

I didn't know what I was getting myself into

Having never u... read more →

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United Kingdom,
Posted: 2019-10-14 15:45:22

  Love or lust?

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on lust. The other day, I was telling a friend of mine about my new partner and they asked me a few questions about them. I realized I didn't know the answer. That's when I began to question myself. I h... read more →

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  How genuine are people on Bumble and Tinder?

Hi Scotty, I use Flirthut every so often and it’s pretty much the same, just in smaller doses. The photos on here seem to be moderated though so you don’t get women obviously posting links to their webcamming sites or for personal services but when you do start chatting to some, it’s clear that’s what they are! I don’t think you can get away from it. Just use common sense and your own judgement. It’s all the same pile of **** in the end anyway!...

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  Am I a lesbian?

If you haven't slept with a person for a long time, does it really mean that you have not interested in this? And what your friend said about "lesbian", does it really matter what others said. If you are a lesbian, then what's wrong with it? They are also human being without any judgement. They are also sleep, laugh, shopping with friends and live a normal life. we people divide them from us....

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  big woman

You have a cute face and hair. You must remember to not go for the guys that are considered hot, the reason is a large percentage are very vain and or narcissistic. I tend to not care unless she has like moles all over her or something along them lines. That though is natural because humans look for imperfections in looks because finding the healthiest looking mate is a card coded survival instinct. I do have lower standards than many men have and most will sleep with a woman then tell the guys ...

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  Looking past the surface

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  Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?

Sounds like you either got friend zoned, she heard something possibly false and now she's angry. personally I'd just find another person. She could have done the Eddy Murphy joke on you and your the emergency d*ck in a jar with the label in case of emergency break glass....

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My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

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  20 questions to ask a girl

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Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  How genuine are people on Bumble and Tinder?

I've been on Bumble and Tinder for a bit but a lot of ladies on there are escorts to my surprise. I fell into the trap of almost going on a date with one until she started talking about money. What really annoys me the most is how much time I wasted chatting to her. Things were going so well and it was a real boost for my ego that's already low. She seemed so genuine and was interested in what I had to say. She even told me about how long she'd been a member on Bumble and how many dates she'd ha... read more →

Posted by: Scotty
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2020-01-22 10:04:59

  Fell in love with Women older than me..

Hey, I'm Sameer and I'm looking for a long distance older/mature girlfriend but I don't know how to approach a woman with a massive age gap b/w me and her. I'm young but I can be a partner who is always there when you need him and I actually prefer to be in love with older women because girls of my age are not as mature or straight to the point. Mature Woman don't play those games and making her smile is an amazing feeling. So? Any advice on how should I approach or what should I say/do?... read more →

Posted by: Sameer1020
United States, Kennedy
Posted: 2019-11-20 01:11:11

  Wants to be loved by Women older than me..

Hey, I'm a young guy wanting to be loved by women of older age (27-45). Is there something wrong with it? I mean it's not like that I wanna f*ck them like rabbits, I just feel that having a mature woman by your side is an amazing feeling and it comforts me and kinda make me feel good about myself. I'm just a young guy not getting girls of my age because all of them either want loads of cash or a huge ****. I know there are women out there who are alone, emotionally broke and wanted to be loved. ... read more →

Posted by:
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-11-20 08:24:13