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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Same here as well

Hello, Derek here from the UK. I'm doing what seems to be a simply ridiculous way of doing things in the line of online dating. I decided to join online dating quite a while ago now with all hopes, aspirations and excitement looking for the ideal date or even anything as it now happens. Loved filling in my details, putting photos on and all my preferences. I particularly stressed age plus or minus 7 years - I'm 67. Even now it seemed daft but I put looking for female. I have got to say I have be... read more →

Posted by: NorthernSo
United Kingdom, Middlewich
Posted: 2020-02-26 20:47:53

  I'm Fed up of the attitude of American women

Next month I am going to Ukraine. I am 28 years old and single for the last two years. I’m tired of the attitude of American women and now I want to have a relationship with a foreign girl. So next month, I’m planning to spend my holidays in Ukraine. So I hope I'll find a good partner there. But I don’t know anything about Ukrainian Culture. No idea how I'll find a girl for a date. I hear that Ukranian girls are very beautiful and romantic. But is it easy to find a soulmate there? Or should I ch... read more →

Posted by: willson34
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-02-26 17:48:51

  Hurting....

If you are a guy like me then you have never cheated, but you get cheated on a lot. I would love to find the love of my life but I'm not gonna just sit around and wait for her. How do I even know she's looking for me? Life deals a lot of damage and the pain is hard to deal with. I am now trying dating sites. Maybe I will find love but if not then at least I might have some fun while I search. Anything wrong with that? I think that having fun makes a person more confident. Confidence is a big par... read more →

Posted by: JamesPrater
United States, Delaplaine
Posted: 2020-02-24 12:51:01

  Chat With Girls

Hi everyone, i am having a tremendously difficult time remaining functional and it has been 6 months since me and me ex-girlfriend of 5.5 months separated. She was my first love and i believe i did and maybe still do love her. So she left me because she felt we had drifted apart and she felt unhappy/stressed with me. A month later we separated for good because we were fighting too much etc. He doesn't even take my calls anymore so I don't feel like I can win him back. I feel like some crazy stal... read more →

Posted by: Chatpov
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2020-02-14 22:40:37

  Trump Impeachment Trial

With the Trump Impeachment trial on-going and all the news coverage about such things, I think I should share some thoughts about that. Like many in the Left Wing, I hope he hets convicted but at the moment I don't see it happening. I see him getting acquitted like Andrew Johnson in 1868, and Bill Clinton in 1998 before him. I don't like the Epoch News running negative news stories about that and all the right-wing media as well. Like most Americans, in a way, I was hoping Trump would get impeac... read more →

Posted by: peaceandlove
United States, Milwaukee
Posted: 2020-01-30 01:18:47

  How can we trust each other?

Hi friends, I'm looking here for a female friend for fun, but I'm afraid to searching here because it's a world of internet and it means here is lots of guy's, male's or females they are searching same, mostly fake identity used. I'm just asking here how can we trust any people, can we really trust? Maybe not, I'm just thinking about this if nobody here is trustworthy than how it's possible, how can we find here a perfect match for us if we always doubtful for loyalty. I know it's risky but frie... read more →

Posted by: Rapidfire303
India, Delhi
Posted: 2020-01-26 13:58:21

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  Same here as well

Hi Derek, I think all dating sites are the same to be honest. Full of fake profiles and scammers. The young girls are usually fake profiles or cam girls. You find them everywhere. They just look for opportunities on the web. I've used the really popular dating sites with little to no success and had equally the same number of responses here on Flirthut. I don't think it matters what site or app you use. It's just a case of patience and making a bit of an effort. Make sure you filter out people t...

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  Married women, Why?

Walk away or she will own you for life....

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  Married women, Why?

Walk away or forever you will be her new husband...

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  Would you date someone with herpes?

Hey man......I got herpes from a one night stand.....and I can't even tell I have them...it affects my life none.....depending on what kind she has.......

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  My view of women's online dating

I think so many guys who just want to get in their pants, say anything that they want to here to get them to trust them and after they score they're on to the next woman. I am not the first guy to contact this woman, there were many before me so there already not trusting, and have their guard up when I get to them. It is too bad so many jerks ruin it for the good guys like us, that's why we finish last....

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  Love or lust?

Either get to know him and see if there’s a mutual ground. If you go for the lust it will break down eventually. One of you will get bored and move on....

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  I'm Fed up of the attitude of American women

Next month I am going to Ukraine. I am 28 years old and single for the last two years. I’m tired of the attitude of American women and now I want to have a relationship with a foreign girl. So next month, I’m planning to spend my holidays in Ukraine. So I hope I'll find a good partner there. But I don’t know anything about Ukrainian Culture. No idea how I'll find a girl for a date. I hear that Ukranian girls are very beautiful and romantic. But is it easy to find a soulmate there? Or should I ch... read more →

Posted by: willson34
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2020-02-26 17:48:51

  Same here as well

Hello, Derek here from the UK. I'm doing what seems to be a simply ridiculous way of doing things in the line of online dating. I decided to join online dating quite a while ago now with all hopes, aspirations and excitement looking for the ideal date or even anything as it now happens. Loved filling in my details, putting photos on and all my preferences. I particularly stressed age plus or minus 7 years - I'm 67. Even now it seemed daft but I put looking for female. I have got to say I have be... read more →

Posted by: NorthernSo
United Kingdom, Middlewich
Posted: 2020-02-26 20:47:53

  Hurting....

If you are a guy like me then you have never cheated, but you get cheated on a lot. I would love to find the love of my life but I'm not gonna just sit around and wait for her. How do I even know she's looking for me? Life deals a lot of damage and the pain is hard to deal with. I am now trying dating sites. Maybe I will find love but if not then at least I might have some fun while I search. Anything wrong with that? I think that having fun makes a person more confident. Confidence is a big par... read more →

Posted by: JamesPrater
United States, Delaplaine
Posted: 2020-02-24 12:51:01