Flirthut Dating Forum
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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.
So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.
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When you ask her whats wrong and she says nothing
I hate it when you know something is bothering her, usually something I've done or said, but when you ask her whats wrong, she just says nothing is wrong. Why cant she be honest and tell me what's bothering her. How am I supposed to make things right if its something I've said or done. How would I know not to do or say that again if its upset her, if she doesn't tell me. In a relationship, you should feel that you can talk to your partner about anything, what bothers you about them etc. Maybe i... read more →
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