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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

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  Friends with benefits includes intimacy or not?

Friends care for each other and friends ought to have each other's backs. But in a situation where you have an opposite s*x friend acting jealous or reprimanding you concerning your love life whereas it's just a matter of being friends with each other; 1 should intimacy be added or 2 must friends with benefits end in intimacy? Or what should we say is friends with benefits? Can those in marriage or relationship have friends with benefits and what could possibly be reasons behind it? Same time... read more →

Posted by: Gafolu
Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2023-10-26 09:12:49

  My hilarious dating encounter

It was a sunny afternoon when I decided to explore the world of online dating connections. Little did I know that this decision would lead to one of the most amusing experiences of my life. Among the sea of profiles, one particular username stood out – "AdventureSeeker." Intrigued by the name, I couldn't resist striking up a conversation. To my delight, "AdventureSeeker" turned out to be a vivacious and witty individual with a zest for life. Our messages were filled with laughter and shared i... read more →

Posted by: Helen
United States,
Posted: 2023-07-24 12:51:22

  Should a girl never have guy friends?

Hi All, I am 33 years old and have never been in any relationship. I am outgoing and easy to talk to, but never has a guy taken interest in me. I would say that I have been bro-zoned a lot of times. Recently I met a guy who actually treated me like a girl and took interest in me. My loud laugh, my weight, my dusky look didn't matter to him. I have developed a soft spot for him and we started dating. However he says that I shouldn't have any male friends and should never converse with them... read more →

Posted by: Nia
Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2023-05-15 21:44:14

  What is the best thing to write in your dating profi...

I searched the internet for the question of what to write in your profile and found this to be one of the best idea: "My name is (whatever) and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm fifty-five years old, with muddy brown hair, deathly pale waxy skin, and cold, dead fish eyes. In my spare time I sit in front of the PC, read, gamble or read and gamble while I am sitting in front of the PC. I'm indifferent, boring, neurotic and not particularly bright. I can't think of any positive character traits at ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2023-03-03 19:42:01

  Why do men cheat on their girlfriend that they claim...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me by sleeping with his female colleague at work. He was very friendly with most of his female colleagues at work, I thought that he was just been friendly with his colleagues which is very good considering the fact that it is healthy for person to be friendly with the people around him or her. Unfortunately, I was mistaken to say the least, I came to his house without his notice because he gave me his spare keys, so I decided to pay him a visit without his notice. ... read more →

Posted by: Zhaoxian
China, Guangzhou
Posted: 2022-11-21 10:58:02

  Is there a drama free relationship?

One of my best friends had asked me during our regular conversation "Is there a drama-free relationship"? My answer was if by "DRAMA" you mean a partner being distressed when you show a lack of concern or an attempt or admiration, then no, there are no relationships where your partner has zero hope or wants of their own. After some time people start to feel neglected and disappointed. They have expectations of what companionship should be like, and this is not what they'd hope hoped for. ... read more →

Posted by: strthawk
United States, Lilburn
Posted: 2022-03-31 13:34:00

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  Why do men cheat on their girlfriend that they claim...

Younger guys cheat nothing you did wrong. You need a older man. Older men have more respect for the relationship and will treat you like a queen....

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  Dating A Parent

Having kids is a good thing and lots of blessings. So going on a date with one having kids mustn't pose a problem rather think of how both of you can work out things. Once you get along well, fine then you can know how to put things in place....

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  Do women like control in bed?

Some do some don't. Depends on the person involved and what you both want. Bottom line is it ought to be a mutual agreement or for experimental purposes before you decide to stop or continue...

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  Chat With Girls

If you try like once or twice no results then give it a break. Get busy with life and improve on yourself. Somewhere along the line you could meet a better partner or reunion could happen...

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  Should a girl never have guy friends?

There's nothing wrong with a girl having guys for friends, the same way as guys may have girls in his life that are just friends. Traditionally we live in a 50/50 world. Men and Women. You can't and likely wont get the same type of support from a female friend as you would a guy friend. The fact of the matter is, whether anyone wants to admit it or not these days, men and women are not "built" the same. Though society has blurred these lines and tried to make it so....

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Friends with benefits includes intimacy or not?

Friends care for each other and friends ought to have each other's backs. But in a situation where you have an opposite s*x friend acting jealous or reprimanding you concerning your love life whereas it's just a matter of being friends with each other; 1 should intimacy be added or 2 must friends with benefits end in intimacy? Or what should we say is friends with benefits? Can those in marriage or relationship have friends with benefits and what could possibly be reasons behind it? Same time... read more →

Posted by: Gafolu
Nigeria, Lagos
Posted: 2023-10-26 09:12:49

  My hilarious dating encounter

It was a sunny afternoon when I decided to explore the world of online dating connections. Little did I know that this decision would lead to one of the most amusing experiences of my life. Among the sea of profiles, one particular username stood out – "AdventureSeeker." Intrigued by the name, I couldn't resist striking up a conversation. To my delight, "AdventureSeeker" turned out to be a vivacious and witty individual with a zest for life. Our messages were filled with laughter and shared i... read more →

Posted by: Helen
United States,
Posted: 2023-07-24 12:51:22

  What is the best thing to write in your dating profi...

I searched the internet for the question of what to write in your profile and found this to be one of the best idea: "My name is (whatever) and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm fifty-five years old, with muddy brown hair, deathly pale waxy skin, and cold, dead fish eyes. In my spare time I sit in front of the PC, read, gamble or read and gamble while I am sitting in front of the PC. I'm indifferent, boring, neurotic and not particularly bright. I can't think of any positive character traits at ... read more →

Posted by: Former member
Location unknown,
Posted: 2023-03-03 19:42:01

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