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Detach yourself from a potential date until you meet

I couple of years ago, I fell for a guy on a dating site like Flirthut. Initially, they appeared to be out of bounds to me and out of my league but exchanging a few messages here and there revealed that we both had an interest in each other. It took some time before one of us plucked up the courage to ask the other one on a date, and it just so happened that it was me that made the first move.

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I've slept with over 1000 men that I met online

How many partners is too many? What's acceptable and what's not? I just enjoy the thrill of meeting someone and the closeness of a brief but intense intimate relationship. We all make choices in life. Some of us make choices that we are happy with and the rest make choices that others are happy with.

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You look nothing like your profile photos so…

Meeting dates should be fun, but it turned out to be a traumatic experience for me. He looked nothing like his profile photos and I couldn't believe the foul language he used to try and be friendly. Eventually I had to tell him what I thought and that didn't go down well at all.

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Should you pay for online dating?

A lot of us believe that paid for dating sites are better than free dating sites, but how do you actually quantify and measure that? Years ago, it was believed that online dating sites that charged a subscription would provide a better level of service than sites that were free. So what is this "better level of service" exactly? Does it even exist?

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Should you pay for online dating?

A lot of us believe that paid for dating sites are

Detach yourself from a potential date until you meet

I couple of years ago, I fell for a guy on a datin

You look nothing like your profile photos so…

Meeting dates should be fun, but it turned out to

I've slept with over 1000 men that I met online

How many partners is too many? What's acceptable a

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Mr Right vs Mr Right Now

We all want Mr Right but sometimes we just need Mr Right Now. Mr Right is more dependable, reliable and listens to what you have to say. Mr Right Now is more about initial attraction. He smells good, dresses well and has an incredible presence about them.

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A quick guide to successful online dating

Most people will try online dating at some time in their life. A lot of those will find the experience tricky and daunting but it doesn't need to be. I've put together a quick guide that should help you make the most of your online dating experience.

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Can you learn from a bad blind date?

I met a blind date that a friend had set up for me but I don’t do blind dates. It’s a bit risky. But I took a chance. It’s amazing how quickly we make our minds up about people. We ended up in a busy pub and he wanted burgers so I had no choice. The date didn’t work out but I learnt a few things about myself.

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