I believe it's either you live for something in life or others define your purpose on earth. Happiness I see as solution to worries and life challenges. I am looking for that special kind of a guy who understand the true definition of fun I mean real fun that takes me to cloud 9 and beyond. I am a working class lady in a male dominated business , I know how to manage my time perfectly and I don't entertain time wasters and unserious persons some see it as been arrogant but I see it as been realistic and call the situation what it really is...... I am in my fifties and comfortable dealing with men in my age bracket, please I am not here for youngsters so don't waste your time writing me I will completely ignore you. My work schedule is a very hectic one but it's been me living my dreams. Hard work as brought me good things of life in all ramifications and I can boldly say life is been good and fair to me. Are you that guy with confidence, style and class, outhere looking for that special lady to escape with you to paradise where everything is possible and we can indulge in our naughty little secret knowing fully well what happens behind close door remains exactly there. Very important you must be sexually active, healthy with no disease. There is COMPLETE trust with a Dominant partner so there is freedom. It’s like being entangled in a secure web. One is controlled yet able to lay back freely in it. All there is to do is to show up, listen in the moment & be of service. This is someone who cares about you and would never harm you that's me. You care about it so much all you want is for me to be pleased. The inverse is also true. Communication is a must. Discussions around boundaries is a must. The use of safe words or simply No is a must. Parameters set, release can be met. You are given the non judgmental space to be submissive. While I am giving same to be Dominant. Finally… Yes, I believe and totally agree there is nothing wrong for strong, smart, confident, independent people with desire to be submissive behind close doors. It is a desire the World cannot understand but we both know it is what we most crave for and no doubt it will free our feelings and what we must crave for and cannot tell even our closest friends and associates.
Without been told you naturally feel your position is to lay back & be led. Some of us are unable to admit to wanting to lay back & be led but let's face it it is what you truly desire what what is missing, that special kind of lady who feels naturally Dominant and respect your position for laying back. we must treat each other as equals. However your desires to live in sub space,and allowing me take control is no reason to abuse you rather it is to bring unending happiness to both of us live. There is a big difference between giving & taking the control. Since you have decided to give the control, I will gracefully take it. It does not mean being abusive! I need to repeat that: IT DOES NOT MEAN BEING ABUSIVE!!! That is where the deep trust factor comes in. This is why submission must be earned. It is not a birth right given to everyone encountered so I appreciate you coming out of the closet to dropping it at my feet so we both can fulfill our long dream desire. Let’s create our rituals & revel in this space together, Well I believe my mission here is clear enough so drop a word or two in a way it will tickle my fancy and I promise to reply back.