Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.

Status last updated: 2016-03-24 15:40:54

Country: United Kingdom
State: Somerset
City: Bruton
Age : 52
Marital status : Cohabiting
Distance from you : km

Male looking for a woman for casual relationship

About me...

Hi there, seeking long term soulmate, friend and lover, open minded, free thinking, fun loving lady who also seeks the good times but without the hassle or the hangups. It's about just being real with each other and communicating, saying what we want and being okay with each others needs and desires in the moment, but allowing the other their life when you are not with them, but giving your all when you are. I am not married, but i am cohabiting with a long term partner who is also a very liberated open minded lady. I am a free spirit and seeking a like minded lady for fun loving caring sharing times, long term and for real genuine friendship and loving. I am not interested in your house, car, money or status, i am only interested in the person and the reality in the moment. Loving, sharing and happiness are important to me, and to make others happy even more important still. It's about two adults looking for the same thing and wanting the same benefits of being needed, wanted and desired, but with the freedom to live your own life without the hangups of another person trying to control you or change you. I am sure we have all been there and had a taste of that cookie before from past partners who were insecure or controlling. What i am offering is free of all that b******t and it's just the good stuff i wish to share with you and the loving too without the usual conditional nonsense. I want to worship you but not control you ! This is not about one night stands or sexual contacts, it's about real friendship and belonging, sharing and togetherness in the moment, a place that you can go to and feel good about, but not feel hassled or pestered by an overbearing man who just wants to change your life or interfere in your private business and your already standing social circles and contacts. I just want you to be you, and to feel good about being wanted and desired by a man just for being you, nothing more nothing less. If you are interested in a long term hassle free loving caring togetherness, then drop me a message and lets see how it goes, who knows, perhaps we think alike and want the same. Please remember, this is about two open minded adults wanting open minded loving and sharing, it's as simple as that. It is the 21st Century, and with the internet things have changed a lot - an awful lot. We can do things today and meet many more people than we could of done as little as 15 years ago. We could never of imagined we would be able to make so many contacts this way and so easily as we can today - we certainly wouldn't of been able to do it down the pub thats for sure, and even the nightclubs were hard going, shouting over the music and spilling your drink down your front whilst trying to dance without falling over ! A keyboard certainly seems a lot less hassle when attempting the mating game, i haven't spilt my drink yet, and i can dance round my front room if i so wish, and i can turn the music down i have on if i wish too. No problems here matey. Life is short and time is very precious indeed. So why waste it ? Let's live it and not just dream it.

What I'm looking for...

Seeking open minded lady for long term contact and loving. Please be aware that this would only suit open minded liberated ladies who understand the meaning of free loving and sharing. I am currently cohabiting with a long term partner who is also open minded and into free open loving, so you would need to accept this fact and be okay with it totaly. My partner is hetrosexual and would be completely accepting of you being around no problem at all. If this appeals to you then please message me and lets talk.

My stats...

  • Best feature: My muscles
  • Height: >5'8 to 5'10 (1.73m to 1.78m)
  • Body type: athletic
  • Hair colour: brown
  • Hair length: short
  • Eyes: blue
  • Drinking habits: rarely / occasionally
  • Smoking habits: rarely / occasionally
  • Has children: none


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