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Single...

I have been single for 4 years. I live in a small town. I do go out to the movies but not bars or clubs. I am 28 years old, black, single mom, and being lonely can be frustrating at times. I consider myself an attractive woman just not a size 10. I have been on a few dates but nothing serious. I hav... more →

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  • NEW! Posted: 2017-01-19 23:21:18

Getting him to shave there...

Hi there! I have a kind of uncomfortable question, but I really need to ask this. How would you like your girl to communicate to you that she would like you to shave there? I've dating someone for like 5 months and I really enjoy everything we do, but sometimes he doesn't shave before having sex a... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-01-03 19:52:20

Does true love exist?...

I loved him with everything to an extent that I literally worship him. And all he could do in paying back was to impregnate my friend. Does true love really exist? Is it a crime that i so much love him? Because right now, I am miserable.... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-01-03 19:47:57

I seem to never attract guys...

I am 21, never had a boyfriend, but I never go to bars or clubs. Guys never approach me, ask me out, and they almost never hit on me when I go to coffee shops, when I do grocery shopping, or to the gym. I am in shape (I am 5'6 and weigh 125 pounds) and I try to wear makeup sometimes just to look goo... more →

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  • Posted: 2016-10-08 07:14:11

Oral Sex...

I'm in a relationship with a man who will not perform oral sex on me, he has only twice in 13 months but that's all... I'm completely waxed and very clean so I don't understand what the issue is. Is this common? can you please shed some light on this?... more →

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  • Posted: 2016-09-24 08:24:04

Virgin at 30...

Having never dated and being a virgin at the age of 30, is that something that is a turn off for men? Is holding onto your virginity for the night of the wedding asking for too much? Shouldn't the person you're with see that as a sign of dedication for him, and respect that? Yes, I'm too shy and I d... more →

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  • Posted: 2016-05-31 22:11:09

  Are there jewish singles/divorcees in here?...

Hi, I'm new here, still trying to figure out how the site works... are there jewish guys in here??... more →

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  • Posted: 2016-02-05 22:12:54

  big woman...

hi i would like to know why most men will not go with a big girl whats wrong with that we are all the same just more to love and hold on to lol :)... more →

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  • Posted: 2015-06-21 16:58:08

  What men want...

What causes a man to fall in love? If all women are just potential lovers, what causes a man to see beyond that. What causes him to want to be around her more?... more →

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  • Posted: 2014-01-26 16:22:02

20 questions to ask a guy...

I am going on a date on Saturday night, but I'm a bit nervous as I haven't been on a date in a while and don't really know what to say to him. I was previous in a long term relationship. So I wanted to write a list of 20 questions to ask a guy on my phone, which I can discretely refer to when the aw... more →

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  • Posted: 2013-12-03 20:21:09