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Am I too nice to guys I like?...

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried t... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-11-07 22:35:03

  My friends are wasting their money on internet brides...

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign wom... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-06-22 09:42:59

Need real advice...

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatical... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-01-30 21:55:39

My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again...

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 ... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-01-15 23:48:40

How long do you wait...

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We ... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-11-06 22:29:26

Real men...

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate d... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-10-25 22:29:34

  Am I the only one?...

I'm 19 and I'm a black girl. I've dated only black guys but I've decided to try dating other races. I think my reason for dating black guys is because they're the only ones that approach you. From my experience in real life and on dating sites, white guys just view and match with you but even if you... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-07-29 08:38:22

I can't figure him out...

I met this guy. We were talking, texting, snap chatting nonstop for over 2 weeks. Treated me like a girlfriend, talking about future dates and meeting the parents. Then one day he started a new job and everything almost stopped. I asked him what was up and he said he didn’t want a relationship. I do... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-02-26 23:34:33

Single...

I have been single for 4 years. I live in a small town. I do go out to the movies but not bars or clubs. I am 28 years old, black, single mom, and being lonely can be frustrating at times. I consider myself an attractive woman just not a size 10. I have been on a few dates but nothing serious. I hav... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-01-19 23:21:18

Getting him to shave there...

Hi there! I have a kind of uncomfortable question, but I really need to ask this. How would you like your girl to communicate to you that she would like you to shave there? I've dating someone for like 5 months and I really enjoy everything we do, but sometimes he doesn't shave before having sex a... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-01-03 19:52:20