Divorced, separated or split up advice forum...

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Divorced, separated or split up advice forum

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  Should I just give up...

Last year I split from my high school sweetheart. We were together for 18 years from the age of 16. I've been with the same person. I've never looked at another woman but I found out she was cheating on me, again, so I ended it. I love her so much but I have to have more respect for myself then that... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-10-07 21:45:24

Holiday romance...

About a month ago, I met a guy while I was on holiday and we had a fling - a holiday romance. He made it quite clear from the start that he wasn't expecting anything more from our relationship but since the holiday finished, I haven't been able to get him out of my mind. I think I've fallen for him ... more →

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  • Posted: 2018-09-12 22:33:36

The Break Up...

So I've been out of my relationship for 3 months. I was broken hearted. I'm starting to feel somewhat better. I'm 45 years old. I thought she was the one but she cheated on me. She devastated me. I just want to find someone who is compatible. Someone to spend the rest of my life with. I just want to... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-06-25 21:34:38

  Crazy woman...

What would make a woman who had been in and out of a relationship with a man for over 15 yrs suddenly say that the whole relationship was a lie all along? We have a 12 year old son who lives with me. Recently his mother moved back in to "try to work things out" but never stopped looking at other men... more →

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  • Posted: 2017-06-13 07:56:12

  What to do...

I was informed about a website my exwife has her profile picture associated with. I'm not sure how long the pictures have been posted, but when it states her age we were married at that time. The pictures are of her totally naked, exposing every part of her body, now that we are divorced I dont know... more →

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  • Posted: 2016-12-28 09:25:05

  Broken Hearted Mending......

I am broken hearted but life must continue. A relationship of 5 years and all I can get is a picture of my fiancĂ©e and his new girlfriend sent by him because we had an argument. I have decided it wont get the better of me but I am moving on and it wont stop me from being a good person. I know all me... more →

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  • Posted: 2015-08-08 20:01:54

I don't want to break up but I know I have to...

I am absolutely totally confused about the situation I'm in. I'm besotted with my boyfriend but my friends recently found out he was cheating on me. I stupidly forgave him cheating on me four times and stopped speaking to my friends instead. He told me he's told me absolutely everything, but then ye... more →

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  • Posted: 2014-05-31 17:46:37

I regret leaving my ex...

I stupidly split from my boyfriend of two years and now I regret leaving him. He was so great with my 4 year old daughter and she calls him dad, which naively was probably a mistake, but he seemed so lovely and I thought we would be together for a long time. The reason I left him was because a frie... more →

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  • Posted: 2013-12-02 22:28:12

  Lost and drowning ...

I am disabled and I am lonely. I have been in relationships were the girl hit me like I was the man. I have been bitter and cold about it for so long that all I want now is just sex but at the same time I want her to like me on some level. I am a kind person. I always have been living with cerebral ... more →

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  • Posted: 2013-08-31 20:39:35

How do I keep getting up in the morning?...

My partner and I split up 2 months ago, after 7 years together. Devastated doesn't even come close. I can't get out of bed, I can't sleep when I'm there, I cry constantly. If I make it to work I snap at everyone all day, then burst into tears. I know my friends are avoiding me because they think I s... more →

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  • Posted: 2012-10-14 13:25:22