I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about being with another woman but I am curious. What should I do? All of my close female friends are straight and have male partners so I can’t really talk to them about this as I’m afraid they might turn against me. I have been thinking that maybe I should have a lesbian encounter to see how I feel but I’m really scared. I’ve never done anything like this before. Please, can anyone help me with some advice?