I am in love with my boyfriends brother

I need some advice as I'm driving myself crazy. I started seeing my boyfriend a year ago and I love him and his family so much. But the problem is that I have had a crush on his brother for the past six months. It started off innocently and I didn't think anything of it as I am a bit frivolous with crushes, but it's got to the stage now where I am insanely jealous of his girlfriend and I can't bear to be around her. We are both always at his parent’s house and although she is nice I hate her for being with him. I can't tell anyone how I feel. My bf's brother doesn't know how I feel either and I would never tell him. And I haven't cheated on my boyfriend and I would never do that as t would rip his family apart.

The crazy part is, that I wouldn't normally go for someone like him, he's overweight with spots, he barely washes and listens to awful emo music which I can't stand but there is something about him that I am totally smitten with.

I'm finding it harder and harder to keep a secret as I find myself getting into situations just to be with him. The other thing is that I sense that he doesn't even like me and we are quite nasty to each other but all I want to do is kiss him.

It's a horrible situation. Has anyone else experienced anything similar as I need some advice on what to do and how to stop being in love with my boyfriends brother.

  • Post by: Brotherly love
  • 2012-10-14 19:50:59

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Comment/reply from : Marli - South Africa -
Posted : 2015-07-15 20:38:42


You may like him because he has a quality your boyfriend don't have. He is new to you and a mystery. Woman are attracted to things we can't have and can't figure out. At the moment you have crush on him, you can't be in love with someone you don't know. There will be other guys. Try to figure out what attracts you to him, you may just be attracted to that quality.