Older woman keeps flirting with my boyfriend at work

My guy works in a call center and this older woman at his work keeps giving him the eye. How can I get her to back off ? He told me she gives him the eye, then he said "if I wasn't with you, I'd go for it, haha" in a joking voice, and now I'm worried. He admitted to liking older women. She's about 30 and he's 19, I'm his age. He is very attractive, clever and funny, so I guess it is to be expected, but I really love him and it would destroy me if he left me. :( what can I do? Will she try and get him?? How would I find out??

  • Post by: Sassysal
  • United States
  • 2013-06-27 09:21:24

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Comment/reply from : SexyHunter - United States - Grafton
Posted : 2013-09-17 21:10:25


Be a presence. You don't have to be there but even something as simple as calling him lets the other woman know that he is hitched. If anything, she is waiting for the moment for something to go wrong. What you shouldn’t do is be mischievous about it. No need for evil glares, or nasty email. All she needs to know is that he is serious with you and she will back off...eventually. As for the BF, time for conditioning. Using negative reinforcement when he refers to the cougar can help to get her off his mind or let him know of the disapproval. Using positive reinforcement when he spends time with you will definitely keep him wanting to stay with you. However this can be a double edge sword as if you do the negative but neglect the positive he will just be miserable and start to not care. If you do the positive but not the negative then he may think he has options.

http://psychology.about.com/od/operantconditioning/f/positive-reinforcement.htm