Spending Christmas Alone Again

Christmas is always a difficult time for me. I've been single now for five years and it always hits home when it's a holiday. It's not that I don't want to meet someone, rather I seem to mess up everytime I do. I've only had a few relationships in my time and I don't ever feel confident when I'm with a woman. I thought I'd join Flirthut but having a look at the people on here, I'm not sure I'd meet the sort of woman that would suit me. Does anyone else have issues with women who are in there 40's? All the TV programs and films make relationships look so easy but the reality is so different, for me anyway. Every year I tell myself that I'll be dating someone over Christmas but it never happens. Anyway, without waffling on too much, I guess my question is do any guys have any advice for a guy like me?

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  • 2017-12-18 23:36:57

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Comment/reply from :
Posted : 2018-01-15 23:59:08

Christmas is finished and I'd love to hear if you met anyone since then? Office party? New years eve party? :)

Comment/reply from : emphyrio33 - Germany - Berlin
Posted : 2018-03-08 09:59:05

TV programs are lies for weak people. Dont watch it. It's not supposed to be easy but it can be even if the chase have to be hard for the catch to be better. Like everything, with more dating and experience you will feel confident with the time... Go out to parties, gigs... meet people make some friends. Don't think about it. Be natural and it will come... But don't present yourself like you just did, as a lonely boy who would like but cant have a relationship for whatever reasons cos if you do you will trap yourself and nothing will change... Stop being sorry about yourself and jump in the fire... It's warm and it burns.