Married women, Why?

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship.

Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should stay with her husband. She's still leaving him. Not sure what to do.

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  • United Kingdom
  • 2018-11-25 23:58:03

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Comment/reply from : Tony - Dominican Republic -
Posted : 2019-01-25 23:03:36


This happened to me years ago. It's a nightmare and you have two options available to you. You have to realise firstly that she wasn't happy with hubby and you are not a love god. First option run away and don't look back. That causes more stress than you can imagine. Second option you go with it but tell her you will not live with her until she is divorced and that she must get her own place. Once she is free she will start seeing you in a different 'immature' light, she will want things you cannot provide. Her social life will change and your 'relationship' won't last six months after that. Just know what you wan't in the long term and stick to it. There is a third option which is move in together and enjoy being abused as she hits menopause. Good Luck.