Are paid dating sites better than free dating sites?

I’ve signed up to several free dating sites, including Flirthut, in the past two years and haven’t really had much success meeting anyone for a long term relationship. The problem I’m finding with all these free dating sites is that a lot people on them are either only interested in a hook up or aren’t even real. I went on a date over the weekend with someone I met here on Flirthut and fortunately they turned out to be genuine but he was really pushy to try and get physical with me. I really liked him to start with but that wore off really quickly when I found out all he wanted was to get me to bed. It’s not the first time this has happened. Pretty much all the guys I’ve met on free dating sites seem to try it on. Am I missing something here? Are the guys on paid dating sites more normal and wanting serious relationships? Do free dating sites just attract guys only interested in hook ups? All the paid dating sites seem to be really expensive and there’s obviously no guarantee. Can any recommend whether I should give paid dating sites a go or are they just as bad?

  • Post by: camidee52
  • United States
  • Hampton
  • 2018-01-31 11:45:57

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Comment/reply from : Writer2020 - Australia - Melbourne
Posted : 2018-02-05 23:43:56


With exceptions...'Men give love for sex, women give sex for love'.
Some are better at hiding it and more patient than others but this is the bare biology of it.
All dating sites have good, bad and fakes.
Paid sites often have fake profiles to entice you to join and pay to message.
I feel your frustration and disappointment but it's a fact of life.
Oh the stories I could tell.

Comment/reply from : 420cupidluv - United States - Apollo Beach
Posted : 2018-02-23 23:14:01


There is not any guarantee of free or paid dating site to meet a genuine guy who will respect your feelings and live with you normally but it's all up to the mind of the particular person you met on the web.

Many guys join this kind of sites only for their enjoyment and other for the long relationship. So it does not depend on the free or paid dating sites but it depends on the person you hook up with.

So try to know more & more about the guy you want to hook up with and investigate about the guy read reviews on the website and any complaint of the guy. You can also take help of using video chat. because the video chat is best option to know more about the personality of the person because it is the main source of interaction face to face not physically but it will help you to know more about the guy.

Comment/reply from : SmashForester - United States - Central Bridge
Posted : 2018-10-25 22:46:01


I guess it's all individually. But the fact is almost every men want just one thing from the women:)
Just don't stop trying to find the nice guy.