Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do I do We have a life together. I'm not perfect but I've never cheated. My biggest issue is I'm not the best at handling stress and that frustrates him. I'm a stay at home Mom and I'm good at what I do he has it made with me. Is he just tired of me? Why do men look for something else when they have it all at home? Can someone explain this?