Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do I do We have a life together. I'm not perfect but I've never cheated. My biggest issue is I'm not the best at handling stress and that frustrates him. I'm a stay at home Mom and I'm good at what I do he has it made with me. Is he just tired of me? Why do men look for something else when they have it all at home? Can someone explain this?

  • Post by: HurtWife
  • 2018-01-30 21:55:39

Comments/responses from other people...

Comment/reply from : uwilltakeitall10 - United States - Fair Oaks
Posted : 2018-02-06 23:46:00


He wants more sex excitement. Just lay him till he says he cant get it up. Everyday and he won't go anywhere else.

Comment/reply from : MatthewYoung - United States - Central Bridge
Posted : 2018-05-12 10:08:30


This is a real problem. Women sit at home with children and cease to be interesting to his man. These are very sad statistics. Men after some time I want to try something new.

Comment/reply from : DomDrago - United States - Fort Lauderdale
Posted : 2018-10-31 08:10:23


Why men cheat? Because we can, because we are experimenting casus we need a bit of excitement. I was with mine for 47 years, she passed, since than I have had 2 , 20 yo live ins, and am now seeking a replacement. Never had a gay experience dont want to not interested. Not into 2 for 1, and I have had a friend with benefits but I will never do that again. I just need one good woman.