My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 minutes then I sat down at a table on my own for another 10 minutes or so before I left. I thought I’d been stood up but within a couple of hours, I got a message from him saying that he’d gone to wrong place and waited for like 2 hours. He sounded really annoyed initially until I told him where I was and what had happened to me. Then he apologized and explained he’d misread the place we agreed on. He’s asked me on another date but I don’t know if he’s just playing me? I really like him. We get on really well by text but we haven’t spoken yet and he’s seen a few pictures of me that he likes. What should I do? He could be telling the truth about going to the wrong place or he could be lying. But why would someone lie about meeting a date? What could they possibly have to gain?

  • Post by: Nicola
  • United States
  • 2018-01-15 23:48:40

Comments/responses from other people...

Comment/reply from : usabeauty66 - United States -
Posted : 2018-02-09 10:27:07


He lied....if he was there for 2 hours, why he didn't give you a call? You got stood up sorry to say....

Comment/reply from : stormy85 - Turkey - Ankara
Posted : 2018-02-11 00:05:50


i think it s a lie. my suggestion is dont meet him again. if he really liked you , he wont give up until he make you to accept another meet. make a video call , he could be a friend of yours who s making a really bad joke.

Comment/reply from : Andrea
Posted : 2018-02-13 23:33:28


It's obviously a lie. Don't waste your time and date another guy, he's just a waste of time maybe he is just playing you around.