I seem to never attract guys

I am 21, never had a boyfriend, but I never go to bars or clubs. Guys never approach me, ask me out, and they almost never hit on me when I go to coffee shops, when I do grocery shopping, or to the gym. I am in shape (I am 5'6 and weigh 125 pounds) and I try to wear makeup sometimes just to look good. No men chase me or pursue me and I feel like I will stay single for the rest of my life. Every once in a blue moon, I may get a stare but that is it. Yes, I am shy but I would never be opposed to a guy approaching me or starting a conversation. Now, I don't feel like I am too ugly for guys not to like me because I have had two taxi drivers call me beautiful, but obviously, they were older men. I don't know what to do?

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  • United States
  • 2016-10-08 07:14:11

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Comment/reply from : SamarthGodara - India - Jaipur
Posted : 2016-10-14 09:46:02


Its all right. I think you shouldnt think too much about this stuff. You will surely get a good looking guy, you just need to add up a few more activities in your routine, like going for swimming, park, gym, library, etc where decent guys can approach you.

Comment/reply from : barry - United States -
Posted : 2016-10-15 07:46:08


You have great attraction just need the right guy.

Comment/reply from : 0 - United States - New York
Posted : 2016-10-17 15:07:19


Hi, male/female/couple here. You know, without ever seeing you and not knowing what you look like we can't honestly tell you why guy's don't or won't approach you and ask you out. But, we do know some women just have a look to them that says "KEEP BACK" or "DON'T APPROACH ME"! If we could see you, we could probably help you out! :)