Totally lost right now and could do with some male advice... Dated this guy 2 years ago and we were absolutely head over heels, and despite the fact he was going to the army, I was prepared to deal with it. Then one night out of the blue he ended it saying I deserved better than a boyfriend who is getting shot at all the time and I had so much potential - he didn't want to be responsible for ruining that. Since breaking up we've remained in contact on and off and had a few one night stands. Then just a few weeks ago we had our first real conversation in a while, initiated by him - he said he had been thinking about me a lot and missed being with me and that he had no idea what to do. The next morning he confirmed it wasn't just a drunken conversation, and that he meant it, but ever since then we've hardly talked and when we do I generally initiate. I don't know where I stand and I don't want to wait around in limbo only to find out he didn't feel that way anymore. I also don't want to try to move on, only to find out that he did still have feelings. ...help?