So I have had some girls in my day who have totally shocked me with what they want to do. Now I have a semi-steady girl who only gets freaky when she's totally messed up. She's expressed to me that she wants the ability to do it when she's sober too but dosnt have the confidence. She's a beautiful girl and I tell her that all the time, but growing up she was the only girl in a house of 6 brothers who put her down....mean bros u kno how it is. So how do I help her build her confidence up without seeming 2 pushy or without making her feel like I only like the sex when she's drunk and gets freaky?