Comment/reply from :
- United States - New York
Posted : 2016-10-17 15:29:25
And now for a real answer and some inside knowledge from a real male/female couple...
Truth is, it's all about ones sexual preference, experience, drive/libido and conception of it. All women are very different as far as sex goes. And with everything sex, contrary to what textbook reading idiots say, are is irrelevant.
Some women are very plain and milquetoast in bed.
Some are not.
Some women like it rough.
Some do not.
Some women love dirty talk, either giving it or hearing it.
Some don't want any chit-chat in bed.
Some women love to "take control".
Some women expect the man to always be "in control".
Some are into tying a guy up and having their way with them.
And sometimes it's not about control at all, it's about pleasure and pleasing one another - you pleasing her and her pleasing you! And It won't always be what you want or how you want it - nope, it has to go both ways sometimes especially since you're not the only one in the bed!
From a guy's point of view and vast experience, before I married I had been with many, many women. Some liked it rough. One liked it really rough (that was actually a turn off for me). Some liked it kinky. Many liked to talk dirty or be talked dirty to and at least four or five liked to tie me up. But I've always made sure it wasn't about me and always made sure that any woman I'm with is completely satisfied way before me.