Am I undesirable

What's wrong with me and why I can't find a girl? I'm 21, 6'2 I'm very athletic. I work out all the time. I don't currently have a job but am taking college classes of Drafting and Cad technology and I don't have a nice truck. Is a nice truck and lots of money all you women care about now a days???

  • Post by: Knobf038
  • United States
  • Savannah
  • 2016-01-10 10:44:16

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Comment/reply from : Anna
Posted : 2016-01-24 00:39:36

No that's not what every woman wants. Plus anyway you'll have those once you qualify and get a job. Just be confident but not arrogant and easy going and someone will find you a great catch x

Comment/reply from : Bikeman80 - United States - Cincinnati
Posted : 2016-08-26 20:26:48

Well, It is general feelings with most men who think they cannot woo a woman because of their social or economic status.....but I tell u what, all those thoughts only exist in your head, perhaps a figment of your imagination. You need to build your confidence and self esteem and be amazed at how women will scramble over you. If you think you need the best of trucks or a very fat bank account before you could ask a woman out then you are getting it totally wrong reason being that not every woman is materialistic. Someone may just love your awesome personality if you have one, your Intelligence, humour and looks and every other things becomes secondary. So Guy, dust off your low self esteem and put on your jacket of confidence and you will have them at your beck and call.

Comment/reply from : tyragiana - United States - Greensboro
Posted : 2016-09-08 08:19:29

There is nothing wrong with you. Confidence is key to finding a mate. You also have to look for factors inside of you where you feel like you are not getting wanted attention by females. I once thought that about myself too and wondered why I couldn't get dates or find the right person. I started putting myself out there more. Going to events, online dating, poetry clubs in order to find the right person. But most importantly I had to realize the insecurities within myself and be comfortable in my own skin.