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Welcome to the Flirthut dating forum and singles chat for all things dating related. Members and guests can use our forum freely - you don't have to register to access or contribute to any part of our forum. All posts are fully moderated before they appear online - for obvious reasons. We will endeavour to limit what we correct, but for the benefit of all our users, grammar and spelling will be corrected where appropriate. Postings with lots of errors will be ignored. Keep it clean, constructive and informative and it'll show up once we've checked it! If you're not a member, you can leave an email address (optional) so that we can contact you when your post or comment has been published.

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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  She lied about what she looked like

Ladies, I want to ask a question and also put something out there for you to take note of. I spent weeks chatting to girl I thought was amazing on the phone. We met on a dating site and exchanged numbers, then we would chat almost every day on the phone for weeks. I mean, we got on so well. We’d laugh together so much and I can honestly say it felt like she was my soulmate. That is until it all went wrong. We’d shared so many pictures online and on KiK. It even got a bit explicit at times, espec... read more →

Posted by: Joseph Williams
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:53:13

  My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 minutes then I sat down at a table on my own for another 10 minutes or so before I left. I thought I’d been stood up but within a couple of hours, I got a message from him saying that he’d gone to wro... read more →

Posted by: Nicola
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:48:40

  No results near me too!

Like Healthnut555, I too am having difficulties finding someone for me in my area however my area has a much denser population and still there is a problem. I'm looking to find a women to make my wife around Seminole, Largo, Clearwater, Pinellas, Saint Petersberg area. Even worse for me I am looking for a LTR and possibly having kids already or making kids....I am a good catch too but all I get is scammers so far I bet I ave talked to 1000 of them and not one real person? If you are interested ... read more →

Posted by: Missing2018
United States, Largo
Posted: 2017-12-24 00:01:44

  Spending Christmas Alone Again

Christmas is always a difficult time for me. I've been single now for five years and it always hits home when it's a holiday. It's not that I don't want to meet someone, rather I seem to mess up everytime I do. I've only had a few relationships in my time and I don't ever feel confident when I'm with a woman. I thought I'd join Flirthut but having a look at the people on here, I'm not sure I'd meet the sort of woman that would suit me. Does anyone else have issues with women who are in there 40'... read more →

Posted by:
United States,
Posted: 2017-12-18 23:36:57

  How long do you wait

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We have both been divorced several years and not been dating much over the last year. At 42 I don’t have the slightest idea what the next step is when kids are involved. Our kids are in middle school and... read more →

Posted by:
United States,
Posted: 2017-11-06 22:29:26

  Real men

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate dating sites and so tired of people wanting sexy pictures or trying to sext. I want a friendship that's on fire... so to speak. I want a best friend, not a hunky sex fiend. Am I searching for a proverb... read more →

Posted by: Lj
United States,
Posted: 2017-10-25 22:29:34

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  20 questions to ask a girl

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Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

  I need my ex back

Stupidly, I split up with my partner 6 months ago, then I realised that I'd made a mistake but it was too late. She has already moved out and rented another place and say's she is happy and there's no way she would want to get back together. She say's she is happier than ever and can focus on herself. But I am devastated. I miss her so much and I can't move on. I don't know what to do.... read more →

Posted by: Zaid
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Posted: 2012-10-08 22:17:05

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  My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 minutes then I sat down at a table on my own for another 10 minutes or so before I left. I thought I’d been stood up but within a couple of hours, I got a message from him saying that he’d gone to wro... read more →

Posted by: Nicola
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:48:40

  She lied about what she looked like

Ladies, I want to ask a question and also put something out there for you to take note of. I spent weeks chatting to girl I thought was amazing on the phone. We met on a dating site and exchanged numbers, then we would chat almost every day on the phone for weeks. I mean, we got on so well. We’d laugh together so much and I can honestly say it felt like she was my soulmate. That is until it all went wrong. We’d shared so many pictures online and on KiK. It even got a bit explicit at times, espec... read more →

Posted by: Joseph Williams
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:53:13

  No results near me too!

Like Healthnut555, I too am having difficulties finding someone for me in my area however my area has a much denser population and still there is a problem. I'm looking to find a women to make my wife around Seminole, Largo, Clearwater, Pinellas, Saint Petersberg area. Even worse for me I am looking for a LTR and possibly having kids already or making kids....I am a good catch too but all I get is scammers so far I bet I ave talked to 1000 of them and not one real person? If you are interested ... read more →

Posted by: Missing2018
United States, Largo
Posted: 2017-12-24 00:01:44