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Welcome to the Flirthut dating forum and singles chat for all things dating related. Members and guests can use our forum freely - you don't have to register to access or contribute to any part of our forum. All posts are fully moderated before they appear online - for obvious reasons. We will endeavour to limit what we correct, but for the benefit of all our users, grammar and spelling will be corrected where appropriate. Postings with lots of errors will be ignored. Keep it clean, constructive and informative and it'll show up once we've checked it! If you're not a member, you can leave an email address (optional) so that we can contact you when your post or comment has been published.

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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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Most recent posts

  Holiday romance

About a month ago, I met a guy while I was on holiday and we had a fling - a holiday romance. He made it quite clear from the start that he wasn't expecting anything more from our relationship but since the holiday finished, I haven't been able to get him out of my mind. I think I've fallen for him big time. We've stayed in touch texting each other at least once a day and I probably would have let it fizzle out if it wasn’t for some of his replies. To give you an example, the other day I text hi... read more →

Posted by: Rebecca Maurier
United States,
Posted: 2018-09-12 22:33:36

  What is my true purpose in life?

OK, firstly, before you read this, I want it understood I am being open and honest. Everything in this post is my opinion and feelings, and does not represent anyone else but me. Also this thing will be like a novel so if you don't want to read a lot, may I recommend you leave this post now. Secondly, I don’t care what you think of my opinions. So if you got a problem with something I said, don’t reply, oh and save your advice as I likely wont take your advice in. With all that clarified, here g... read more →

Posted by:
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Posted: 2018-07-04 22:59:56

  My friends are wasting their money on internet bride...

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign woman. Should I just sit around and watch them waste their money on these women? Or shall I change my mindset? Are there real and successful marriages born out of online dating? Thanks!... read more →

Posted by: smithsmitten30
United States, Philadelphia
Posted: 2018-06-22 09:42:59

  Country

I'm British and have not had any flirts or offers. My Profile is up to date, picture a few years old, but believe i have not changed too much. At the moment all I get is apparent pretty American women sending notifications. Maybe I joined the wrong site on impulse?... read more →

Posted by: smartmart57
United Kingdom, Barnsley
Posted: 2018-03-31 08:36:15

  Are paid dating sites better than free dating sites?

I’ve signed up to several free dating sites, including Flirthut, in the past two years and haven’t really had much success meeting anyone for a long term relationship. The problem I’m finding with all these free dating sites is that a lot people on them are either only interested in a hook up or aren’t even real. I went on a date over the weekend with someone I met here on Flirthut and fortunately they turned out to be genuine but he was really pushy to try and get physical with me. I really lik... read more →

Posted by: camidee52
United States, Hampton
Posted: 2018-01-31 11:45:57

  Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do I do We have a life together. I'm not perfect but I've never cheated. My biggest issue is I'm not th... read more →

Posted by: HurtWife
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Posted: 2018-01-30 21:55:39

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  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

  Facebook Posting

I have several sites on facebook, where friends and family chat. Is there anyway to lock the link to facebook so my profile does not end up there? Maybe I am jumping the gun here a bit. I should ask is there any way my profile can be posted on facebook or twitter by another than myself. Thanks... read more →

Posted by: love2licku
United States, Jackson
Posted: 2014-06-07 19:46:18

Posts of interest

  Holiday romance

About a month ago, I met a guy while I was on holiday and we had a fling - a holiday romance. He made it quite clear from the start that he wasn't expecting anything more from our relationship but since the holiday finished, I haven't been able to get him out of my mind. I think I've fallen for him big time. We've stayed in touch texting each other at least once a day and I probably would have let it fizzle out if it wasn’t for some of his replies. To give you an example, the other day I text hi... read more →

Posted by: Rebecca Maurier
United States,
Posted: 2018-09-12 22:33:36

  My friends are wasting their money on internet bride...

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign woman. Should I just sit around and watch them waste their money on these women? Or shall I change my mindset? Are there real and successful marriages born out of online dating? Thanks!... read more →

Posted by: smithsmitten30
United States, Philadelphia
Posted: 2018-06-22 09:42:59

  What is my true purpose in life?

OK, firstly, before you read this, I want it understood I am being open and honest. Everything in this post is my opinion and feelings, and does not represent anyone else but me. Also this thing will be like a novel so if you don't want to read a lot, may I recommend you leave this post now. Secondly, I don’t care what you think of my opinions. So if you got a problem with something I said, don’t reply, oh and save your advice as I likely wont take your advice in. With all that clarified, here g... read more →

Posted by:
,
Posted: 2018-07-04 22:59:56