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Welcome to the Flirthut dating forum and singles chat for all things dating related. Members and guests can use our forum freely - you don't have to register to access or contribute to any part of our forum. All posts are fully moderated before they appear online - for obvious reasons. We will endeavour to limit what we correct, but for the benefit of all our users, grammar and spelling will be corrected where appropriate. Postings with lots of errors will be ignored. Keep it clean, constructive and informative and it'll show up once we've checked it! If you're not a member, you can leave an email address (optional) so that we can contact you when your post or comment has been published.

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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  Country

I'm British and have not had any flirts or offers. My Profile is up to date, picture a few years old, but believe i have not changed too much. At the moment all I get is apparent pretty American women sending notifications. Maybe I joined the wrong site on impulse?... read more →

Posted by: smartmart57
United Kingdom, Barnsley
Posted: 2018-03-31 08:36:15

  Are paid dating sites better than free dating sites?

I’ve signed up to several free dating sites, including Flirthut, in the past two years and haven’t really had much success meeting anyone for a long term relationship. The problem I’m finding with all these free dating sites is that a lot people on them are either only interested in a hook up or aren’t even real. I went on a date over the weekend with someone I met here on Flirthut and fortunately they turned out to be genuine but he was really pushy to try and get physical with me. I really lik... read more →

Posted by: camidee52
United States, Hampton
Posted: 2018-01-31 11:45:57

  Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do I do We have a life together. I'm not perfect but I've never cheated. My biggest issue is I'm not th... read more →

Posted by: HurtWife
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Posted: 2018-01-30 21:55:39

  She lied about what she looked like

Ladies, I want to ask a question and also put something out there for you to take note of. I spent weeks chatting to girl I thought was amazing on the phone. We met on a dating site and exchanged numbers, then we would chat almost every day on the phone for weeks. I mean, we got on so well. We’d laugh together so much and I can honestly say it felt like she was my soulmate. That is until it all went wrong. We’d shared so many pictures online and on KiK. It even got a bit explicit at times, espec... read more →

Posted by: Joseph Williams
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:53:13

  My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 minutes then I sat down at a table on my own for another 10 minutes or so before I left. I thought I’d been stood up but within a couple of hours, I got a message from him saying that he’d gone to wro... read more →

Posted by: Nicola
United States,
Posted: 2018-01-15 23:48:40

  No results near me too!

Like Healthnut555, I too am having difficulties finding someone for me in my area however my area has a much denser population and still there is a problem. I'm looking to find a women to make my wife around Seminole, Largo, Clearwater, Pinellas, Saint Petersberg area. Even worse for me I am looking for a LTR and possibly having kids already or making kids....I am a good catch too but all I get is scammers so far I bet I ave talked to 1000 of them and not one real person? If you are interested ... read more →

Posted by: Missing2018
United States, Largo
Posted: 2017-12-24 00:01:44

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  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

  Facebook Posting

I have several sites on facebook, where friends and family chat. Is there anyway to lock the link to facebook so my profile does not end up there? Maybe I am jumping the gun here a bit. I should ask is there any way my profile can be posted on facebook or twitter by another than myself. Thanks... read more →

Posted by: love2licku
United States, Jackson
Posted: 2014-06-07 19:46:18

Posts of interest

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18

  Country

I'm British and have not had any flirts or offers. My Profile is up to date, picture a few years old, but believe i have not changed too much. At the moment all I get is apparent pretty American women sending notifications. Maybe I joined the wrong site on impulse?... read more →

Posted by: smartmart57
United Kingdom, Barnsley
Posted: 2018-03-31 08:36:15

  Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do I do We have a life together. I'm not perfect but I've never cheated. My biggest issue is I'm not th... read more →

Posted by: HurtWife
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Posted: 2018-01-30 21:55:39