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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  Married women, Why?

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship. Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should stay with her husband. She's still leaving him. Not sure what to do.... read more →

Posted by:
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2018-11-25 23:58:03

  Am I too nice to guys I like?

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried to let in every way possible that I was interested in him. We added each other on Facebook and I looked at his feeds. A lot of the stuff was like conservative and I was liking it. And he got mad and as... read more →

Posted by:
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Posted: 2018-11-07 22:35:03

  Should I just give up

Last year I split from my high school sweetheart. We were together for 18 years from the age of 16. I've been with the same person. I've never looked at another woman but I found out she was cheating on me, again, so I ended it. I love her so much but I have to have more respect for myself then that. I deserve better. When we separated I took on my two children full time (woo single dad lol) but I've been trying this whole online dating thing for over a year now and haven't even had a single rep... read more →

Posted by: 0
United Kingdom, Liverpool
Posted: 2018-10-07 21:45:24

  Am feeling a right sight unsure

Every day I see this girl at her workplace, and she looks so beautiful, I complimented her today with “I’m not too good at compliments, but if you don’t mind me saying, you look very beautiful”, she very lightly blushed and giggly said “aw thank you”. A part of me wants to ask her out and another fears she will turn me down. To put my mind at ease, based on what I have noted, what should I do?... read more →

Posted by:
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Posted: 2018-09-22 08:19:02

  Any advice for wooing Lima women?

I want to ask this woman out, but I don't know how. I was thinking of impressing her by playing her favorite song by this musician named Mac Demarco on guitar.. But my singing voice kinda sucks. Any advice for wooing Lima women over? I need creative ideas that aren't too common or basic… She's pretty special, so I don't wanna strike out with my only chance with her.... read more →

Posted by: Mrk35Hudsn
United States, Atlanta
Posted: 2018-09-22 08:12:28

  Holiday romance

About a month ago, I met a guy while I was on holiday and we had a fling - a holiday romance. He made it quite clear from the start that he wasn't expecting anything more from our relationship but since the holiday finished, I haven't been able to get him out of my mind. I think I've fallen for him big time. We've stayed in touch texting each other at least once a day and I probably would have let it fizzle out if it wasn’t for some of his replies. To give you an example, the other day I text hi... read more →

Posted by: Rebecca Maurier
United States,
Posted: 2018-09-12 22:33:36

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  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

  Facebook Posting

I have several sites on facebook, where friends and family chat. Is there anyway to lock the link to facebook so my profile does not end up there? Maybe I am jumping the gun here a bit. I should ask is there any way my profile can be posted on facebook or twitter by another than myself. Thanks... read more →

Posted by: love2licku
United States, Jackson
Posted: 2014-06-07 19:46:18

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  Married women, Why?

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship. Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should stay with her husband. She's still leaving him. Not sure what to do.... read more →

Posted by:
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2018-11-25 23:58:03

  Am I too nice to guys I like?

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried to let in every way possible that I was interested in him. We added each other on Facebook and I looked at his feeds. A lot of the stuff was like conservative and I was liking it. And he got mad and as... read more →

Posted by:
,
Posted: 2018-11-07 22:35:03

  Should I just give up

Last year I split from my high school sweetheart. We were together for 18 years from the age of 16. I've been with the same person. I've never looked at another woman but I found out she was cheating on me, again, so I ended it. I love her so much but I have to have more respect for myself then that. I deserve better. When we separated I took on my two children full time (woo single dad lol) but I've been trying this whole online dating thing for over a year now and haven't even had a single rep... read more →

Posted by: 0
United Kingdom, Liverpool
Posted: 2018-10-07 21:45:24