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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  How long do you wait

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We have both been divorced several years and not been dating much over the last year. At 42 I don’t have the slightest idea what the next step is when kids are involved. Our kids are in middle school and... read more →

Posted by:
United States,
Posted: 2017-11-06 22:29:26

  Real men

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate dating sites and so tired of people wanting sexy pictures or trying to sext. I want a friendship that's on fire... so to speak. I want a best friend, not a hunky sex fiend. Am I searching for a proverb... read more →

Posted by: Lj
United States,
Posted: 2017-10-25 22:29:34

  First timers fantasy

Ok, I'm a real totally straight white guy - never ever even kissed my son on the lips, but for some reason when I get a little high I've wanted a decent looking female to dress me up like a girl and order me to perform sex acts on a black guy while she videos it all on my cell. And so my question or questions are first is this something many woman would be OK with doing and does this make me hay? Thank you.... read more →

Posted by: Rusty
American Samoa,
Posted: 2017-09-04 20:37:06

  No results for matches near me

If I try to find anyone with the available age range and gender I want anywhere near where I live, it says no results and gives me people from other states. I don't want a long distance relationship. Why aren't there any people near me? Are there just not a lot of people on this site, or is this a glitch? Is anyone else having this issue? Any ideas how to fix it?... read more →

Posted by: HealthNut555
United States, Leesburg
Posted: 2017-09-01 07:48:14

  Am I the only one?

I'm 19 and I'm a black girl. I've dated only black guys but I've decided to try dating other races. I think my reason for dating black guys is because they're the only ones that approach you. From my experience in real life and on dating sites, white guys just view and match with you but even if you start the conversation, they just seem like they don't want to continue the conversation. Like I only had pictures showing my face and one guy sent a message saying nice booty????! Tf... read more →

Posted by: Beyourself
Canada, Ottawa
Posted: 2017-07-29 08:38:22

  Where is my FX gallery

I have started a gallery which has been approved and it says to view it "go to your profile and select your FX gallery" but I don't see this anywhere on my profile. Please can someone tell me where it it. Thank you... read more →

Posted by: 0
United Kingdom, Feltham
Posted: 2017-07-03 21:35:08

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  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

  I need my ex back

Stupidly, I split up with my partner 6 months ago, then I realised that I'd made a mistake but it was too late. She has already moved out and rented another place and say's she is happy and there's no way she would want to get back together. She say's she is happier than ever and can focus on herself. But I am devastated. I miss her so much and I can't move on. I don't know what to do.... read more →

Posted by: Zaid
,
Posted: 2012-10-08 22:17:05

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  How long do you wait

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We have both been divorced several years and not been dating much over the last year. At 42 I don’t have the slightest idea what the next step is when kids are involved. Our kids are in middle school and... read more →

Posted by:
United States,
Posted: 2017-11-06 22:29:26

  Real men

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate dating sites and so tired of people wanting sexy pictures or trying to sext. I want a friendship that's on fire... so to speak. I want a best friend, not a hunky sex fiend. Am I searching for a proverb... read more →

Posted by: Lj
United States,
Posted: 2017-10-25 22:29:34

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18