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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  Why does my girlfriend not want to give me head?

I always enjoy eating her out - I do it a lot as well. I'm just confused why she may not enjoy doing it? She has given me head a couple of times but not anymore. I've asked her but she doesn't give me a real answer, just a mix of different answers each time I ask.... read more →

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Posted: 2017-04-24 22:19:56

  I can't figure him out

I met this guy. We were talking, texting, snap chatting nonstop for over 2 weeks. Treated me like a girlfriend, talking about future dates and meeting the parents. Then one day he started a new job and everything almost stopped. I asked him what was up and he said he didn’t want a relationship. I don’t want that either. I’m super busy. But, we became super close and I like him a lot. So we decided friends with benefits. But whenever I offered an invitation he always turns it down saying he’s too... read more →

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Posted: 2017-02-26 23:34:33


I have been single for 4 years. I live in a small town. I do go out to the movies but not bars or clubs. I am 28 years old, black, single mom, and being lonely can be frustrating at times. I consider myself an attractive woman just not a size 10. I have been on a few dates but nothing serious. I have also tried online dating but no results. I am not sure what to do, any advice?... read more →

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United States,
Posted: 2017-01-19 23:21:18

  Getting him to shave there

Hi there! I have a kind of uncomfortable question, but I really need to ask this. How would you like your girl to communicate to you that she would like you to shave there? I've dating someone for like 5 months and I really enjoy everything we do, but sometimes he doesn't shave before having sex and I feel a little overwhelmed feeling all that hair in my skin... Besides, it gets very uncomfortable for me when doing oral sex. I used to get him presents very often so I was thinking if I should g... read more →

Posted by: Mariale
Posted: 2017-01-03 19:52:20

  Does true love exist?

I loved him with everything to an extent that I literally worship him. And all he could do in paying back was to impregnate my friend. Does true love really exist? Is it a crime that i so much love him? Because right now, I am miserable.... read more →

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Posted: 2017-01-03 19:47:57

  What to do

I was informed about a website my exwife has her profile picture associated with. I'm not sure how long the pictures have been posted, but when it states her age we were married at that time. The pictures are of her totally naked, exposing every part of her body, now that we are divorced I dont know if I should let it go, or confront her about it. Please Help Dont Know What To Do.... read more →

Posted by: funnyguy
United States, Salt Lake City
Posted: 2016-12-28 09:25:05

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Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  I need my ex back

Stupidly, I split up with my partner 6 months ago, then I realised that I'd made a mistake but it was too late. She has already moved out and rented another place and say's she is happy and there's no way she would want to get back together. She say's she is happier than ever and can focus on herself. But I am devastated. I miss her so much and I can't move on. I don't know what to do.... read more →

Posted by: Zaid
Posted: 2012-10-08 22:17:05

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  Why does my girlfriend not want to give me head?

I always enjoy eating her out - I do it a lot as well. I'm just confused why she may not enjoy doing it? She has given me head a couple of times but not anymore. I've asked her but she doesn't give me a real answer, just a mix of different answers each time I ask.... read more →

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Posted: 2017-04-24 22:19:56

  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18

  Flirthut problems and suggestions

For some reason, the Search function returns exclusively males, when I am exclusively interested in females.... Also, the height selection should be reorganized to set minimum and maximum numbers, as should the age section, rather than forcing users to search a series of segments. I tried to notify Flirthut using the 'contact us' page, but got a banner that said I was not allowed to use that page.... read more →

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United States, Harrisonburg
Posted: 2016-12-17 08:43:38