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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  How to write your online dating profile

We all know, everyday millions of singles crawl dating sites and apps and the profiles are the first thing that people see. So, we need to write an attention-getting bio in the profile. Also, we should add best and latest photos in our profile. Guys, please share your views on an online dating profile. Thanks in advance!... read more →

Posted by: FrankvonMajik
United Kingdom, Herne Hill
Posted: 2016-12-06 23:52:28

  How to Get Dates With Women

You have to freshen up your appearance. What you look like may not be the most important aspect of attracting women, but it DOES matter. Some guys wish that it did not matter at all, but it does to some extent. If it has been a while since you have updated your wardrobe or gotten a fresh, new haircut... go for it. Realize that the first impression a woman is going to have of you IS how you look. You have to be the one that starts the conversation with a woman. Sometimes you will end up in a s... read more →

Posted by: jasoncooper
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2016-10-10 22:13:01

  I seem to never attract guys

I am 21, never had a boyfriend, but I never go to bars or clubs. Guys never approach me, ask me out, and they almost never hit on me when I go to coffee shops, when I do grocery shopping, or to the gym. I am in shape (I am 5'6 and weigh 125 pounds) and I try to wear makeup sometimes just to look good. No men chase me or pursue me and I feel like I will stay single for the rest of my life. Every once in a blue moon, I may get a stare but that is it. Yes, I am shy but I would never be opposed to a... read more →

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United States,
Posted: 2016-10-08 07:14:11

  Do women like control in bed?

Hi. I'm intrigued to know how women feel about being in control in bed? Normally I like to be in control but have never really met a women that will take over. I'd like to be tied to the bed and let her do anything she wants but I'm normally the one that has to do it. Anyone like tying a guy up?... read more →

Posted by: Funguy2269
United Kingdom, Chester
Posted: 2016-10-02 22:03:38

  How do I get the love of my life on this platform?

Please, someone help me out. I've sent request to some people I'll like to hook up with on this site. but non has ever accepted my request. please what am I supposed to do or do I look too unattractive?... read more →

Posted by: hamid004
Nigeria, Ibadan
Posted: 2016-09-27 22:16:21

  Oral Sex

I'm in a relationship with a man who will not perform oral sex on me, he has only twice in 13 months but that's all... I'm completely waxed and very clean so I don't understand what the issue is. Is this common? can you please shed some light on this?... read more →

Posted by: Carmen
Australia,
Posted: 2016-09-24 08:24:04

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Stupidly, I split up with my partner 6 months ago, then I realised that I'd made a mistake but it was too late. She has already moved out and rented another place and say's she is happy and there's no way she would want to get back together. She say's she is happier than ever and can focus on herself. But I am devastated. I miss her so much and I can't move on. I don't know what to do.... read more →

Posted by: Zaid
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Posted: 2012-10-08 22:17:05

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

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  How to write your online dating profile

We all know, everyday millions of singles crawl dating sites and apps and the profiles are the first thing that people see. So, we need to write an attention-getting bio in the profile. Also, we should add best and latest photos in our profile. Guys, please share your views on an online dating profile. Thanks in advance!... read more →

Posted by: FrankvonMajik
United Kingdom, Herne Hill
Posted: 2016-12-06 23:52:28

  How to Get Dates With Women

You have to freshen up your appearance. What you look like may not be the most important aspect of attracting women, but it DOES matter. Some guys wish that it did not matter at all, but it does to some extent. If it has been a while since you have updated your wardrobe or gotten a fresh, new haircut... go for it. Realize that the first impression a woman is going to have of you IS how you look. You have to be the one that starts the conversation with a woman. Sometimes you will end up in a s... read more →

Posted by: jasoncooper
United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2016-10-10 22:13:01

  How do I get the love of my life on this platform?

Please, someone help me out. I've sent request to some people I'll like to hook up with on this site. but non has ever accepted my request. please what am I supposed to do or do I look too unattractive?... read more →

Posted by: hamid004
Nigeria, Ibadan
Posted: 2016-09-27 22:16:21