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Online dating has been steadily growing now for many years particularly with people who are having to work longer hours and are finding less time to socialise and meet people outside. Dating online can be very effective and statistics are showing that more and more people are getting married with partners they have met online. The dating world can raise all sorts of questions and our forum is here to try and help make it a little easier to ask them. For dating tips, please visit our dating tips section to make your online dating experience more satisfying.

So if you have a questions, or perhaps you have some advice to offer, you should be able to find the relevant topic for your query in our forum.

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  More woman than I could possibly handle

Many years ago (before internet dating), following a 'Personal ad.,' I secured a blind date via the telephone with breathless Linda who I suspected of working out at the time I called, but she said not. We agreed to meet at a restaurant. Our meeting was somewhat surprising as, by Linda's own admission, she weighed thirty two stones (203 kg.). She asked if I minded her weight? Of course I replied 'No.' Anyway, I had not taken a klaxton and trainers with me, and what harm could her weight do? ... read more →

Posted by: 0
United Kingdom, Newtown
Posted: 2019-01-27 23:34:53

  why do "nice guys" finish last?

I am a 100% straight guy, an only parent of 2 kids and I have been a widower for 6 years. I've also been alone for that 6 years. I have been branded as a "nice guy" many times, which feels like a curse, because, even though they say they do, women just dont want a nice guy. So, what do women want? An egotistical asshole that treats them like shit? Why?! So how should I treat women? I'm sick of being so lonely & depressed, and just want to find a lasting relationship. Also, where should i try to... read more →

Posted by: JR
United States,
Posted: 2019-01-01 11:19:10

  Real men

Can a girl ever find true love and not get heart broken? Is there really true men out there? Can true love always last forever?... read more →

Posted by: Laraphill
United States, Cambridge
Posted: 2019-01-01 11:13:17

  2 fetish related questions

Hi, I'm a 39 year old STRAIGHT man, only parent of 2 kids, and a lonely widower the past 6 years. I also have a fetish that i discovered in my early teens. I love wearing satin panties. My wife was ok with it, and at times encouraged it, because seeing me in panties made her hot and horny, but now that she's no longer with us, I wonder how do other women feel about guys who wear panties? Would you date a guy in panties? If not, why not? The other question I have is why is it that since I only fe... read more →

Posted by: JR
United States,
Posted: 2018-12-31 23:09:55

  Married women, Why?

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship. Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should stay with her husband. She's still leaving him. Not sure what to do.... read more →

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United Kingdom,
Posted: 2018-11-25 23:58:03

  Am I too nice to guys I like?

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried to let in every way possible that I was interested in him. We added each other on Facebook and I looked at his feeds. A lot of the stuff was like conservative and I was liking it. And he got mad and as... read more →

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Posted: 2018-11-07 22:35:03

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  My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should...

My boyfriend whet to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling lik... read more →

Posted by: Sadandlonely
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2013-06-27 09:18:36

  20 questions to ask a girl

If you could think of 20 questions to ask a girl, what would they be?... read more →

Posted by: Rox
United States,
Posted: 2012-10-05 22:32:52

  Am I a lesbian?

I haven’t slept with a guy for over 3 years now and a few weeks ago, one of my friends jokingly suggested that I was a lesbian. Joking aside though, I’m a bit concerned as I don’t seem to have much of a drive any more for men. I’ve been on several dates in that time but none of them seem to satisfy me emotionally or mentally. I find guys are really immature and I have far better relationships with my female friends. I’m really worried that I might be lesbian or bisexual. I don’t fantasise about ... read more →

Posted by: jkills
United Kingdom, Luton
Posted: 2012-11-07 20:37:31

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  How long before my new partner can meet my children?

How long should I wait before I introduce a new man to my children? I have two children aged six and three and I have been dating my boyfriend now for a few months. In that time, we've got very close and I am very much in love with him. He knows I have children (he doesn't have any of his own) but he hasn’t seen them yet. We have been dating every weekend but I haven’t been completely sure when to introduce him to my children because I am worried that he may leave me and they may get attached to... read more →

Posted by: Helen B
United Kingdom,
Posted: 2012-10-09 15:31:18

  More woman than I could possibly handle

Many years ago (before internet dating), following a 'Personal ad.,' I secured a blind date via the telephone with breathless Linda who I suspected of working out at the time I called, but she said not. We agreed to meet at a restaurant. Our meeting was somewhat surprising as, by Linda's own admission, she weighed thirty two stones (203 kg.). She asked if I minded her weight? Of course I replied 'No.' Anyway, I had not taken a klaxton and trainers with me, and what harm could her weight do? ... read more →

Posted by: 0
United Kingdom, Newtown
Posted: 2019-01-27 23:34:53

  2 fetish related questions

Hi, I'm a 39 year old STRAIGHT man, only parent of 2 kids, and a lonely widower the past 6 years. I also have a fetish that i discovered in my early teens. I love wearing satin panties. My wife was ok with it, and at times encouraged it, because seeing me in panties made her hot and horny, but now that she's no longer with us, I wonder how do other women feel about guys who wear panties? Would you date a guy in panties? If not, why not? The other question I have is why is it that since I only fe... read more →

Posted by: JR
United States,
Posted: 2018-12-31 23:09:55